Who has the dirtier mind, Men or Women?

Question

I find my mind stays in the gutter a lot of the time. Like when I'm flirting with a guy I really like, it tends to go there a lot.

Valdemort · Accepted Answer

I don't know about others, but my mind is definitely in the gutter most of the time :')

KittygosMeoWW · Accepted Answer

Women lol for sure

Finchie40 · Answer

I guess it’s about equivalent, it just depends on the person and how much they love sex and how often they are getting sex. If someone isn’t getting sex they tend to be more dirtier cuz they are craving it , if I haven’t had sex in awhile and I am craving it , Ii will become more flirty and dirty cuz I want sex. But some people are good at just holding it in and some people just straight out say what they want to say and have no filter. Me personally has a dirty mind that I will keep to myself for the most part , until I meet a beautiful girl that I want naked in my arms that I feel I have good chemistry and connection with , and I met girls’ that were just as dirty as I am that caught me off guard with her dirty talk . That were pretty much telling me things, that they wanted to do to me , and not going to lie , that’s a turn on to me that I probably won’t back down from , especially if I find her beautiful and attractive to my eyes. Attraction and chemistry and connection is all that matters to me. I love submissive girls’ as well that know how to please a man , that treat me like a gold that have no problem getting on her knees for me. That love sex as much as I do. When a girl doesn’t hesitate to keep me satisfied , she will get my heart 100 percent

ShellyB · Answer

This is just my opinion but I think guys think more about our bodies, seeing us naked, touching our bodies, like touching our butts or putting fingers inside our bodies and things like that, vs what I think about is more like, a psychological journey usually involving bondage, I mean like, my favorite porn is videos of naked girls in cages for an hour or longer where I just imagine myself in her place dealing mentally and emotionally with it.

So I don’t know which is dirtier? They are both dirty, in different ways I guess. Also I think guys spend more minutes per day thinking about sex stuff on average, at least, guys I have been with want sex more often than I do and I don’t think I am a cold person. JMO!

ohsheeT · Answer

This is a really good question but I think it's who the individual is because there's moments in time where I mean I can just be downright naughty hot it's sexy it's just everything all at the right time the right moment but at the same time I do know girls that way too I like it when the girls that way because I'm just naturally that way because I like to flirt I like to feel that energy that emotion that intensiveness coming from the words or the action so I think it's just not any given moment

DishLady · Answer

Hmm. I think it just depends on the guy/gal. Some folks don't automatically think that way and some ALWAYS do.

AviatorTom · Answer

In general, women have a dirtier mind, but they are less vocal about it than men.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

According to most research, there is no definitive answer to who has a "dirtier mind" between men and women, as individual differences in thought patterns and sexual attitudes are far more significant than any general gender trend; the perception of a "dirty mind" is often influenced by social and cultural factors rather than biological ones.
Key points to consider:
Individual variation:
People of all genders can have a wide range of sexual thoughts and desires, making it impossible to generalize about an entire sex.
Social norms:
Societal expectations can influence how openly people express their sexual thoughts, potentially leading to the perception that one gender is "dirtier" than the other, even if their actual thoughts are similar.
Research limitations:
Studies on sexual thoughts and attitudes can be challenging to conduct due to self-reporting biases, making it difficult to accurately compare genders.

Purpleronnie · Answer

“Dirtier” ? , even the meaning would likely change from man to man or woman to woman. One persons “dirty” is another person’s vanilla or mainstream. Additionally , that’s all before you consider what part kinks play or what’s considered perversion otherwise the results would be considerably skewed.

For a time I was convinced that men were majoritively or generally accepted as the more sexually voracious and so perhaps that may also mean that because the actively seek and think about sex more that this was a factor but I don’t think it is.

The individual is the key , their experience and exposure and perhaps even how open-minded they are could all have a relationship with how “dirty” they are.

I’m convinced it’s not defined by gender how.
Men are almost definitely more coarse in my opinion but naughty and dirty well the range of definition alone makes that impossible to “peg” on to a gender 😆. Sorry couldn’t help myself 😇

Anonymous · Answer

It depends what you mean by a dirty mind. If it's just being horny and thinking a lot about sex, I think men and women are pretty equal on average.

If you mean kinks, I think men are generally kinkier, but not always.

The one exception I've found in terms of kink is BDSM stuff. I used to assume men liked BDSM stuff more, but my experience has been the opposite. In a trusting relationship, most women seem to absolutely love being dominated, restrained, treated a little rough (sometimes a lot), having some mild pain inflicted, and just generally being "used". The "being used" part is very mentally stimulating for them. They get a lot of mental pleasure from it (the brain is the most important sex organ), so in reality they are not being used at all. But the perception of being used by their man for his pleasure is hot for those women

OneViewpoint · Answer

Any guy who thinks those sweet little flowers aren't just as raunchy and dirty as guys is naive as hell. Forget about the persona they project for society. Get a few of them together with a few drinks in them and see what comes out of their mouths. Ask them about their fantasies. Don't be taking a sip of your drink when they answer.

HighValue · Answer

Women are far more obsessed with sex than men. That is why the highest selling book genre is romance and now they say it has "spice" as a code word that it has graphic sexual scenes. It outsells all other genres COMBINED by millions of copies each year. Women are obsessed with sex, promiscuity/infidelity, and size.

Amii_Hex · Answer

Well i always hear guys talk about stuff in a very dirty way, like, loudly openly discussing sex stuff or porn or stuff, not giving a damn who hears them.

Like yeah me and my friends also talk about which guy we like or what not but we do it more privately and quiet and we dont just talk about sex but just like liking the guy

AManOnTheWeb · Answer

By "having the dirtier mind" are we referring to thinking about sex more often? or do we mean having more extreme sexual fantasies?

debbiedenise · Answer

LOL! I have always heard it said that men want a lady in public and a freak in the sheets. I wouldn't know though. LOL!

WhiteSteve · Answer

I would assume men, but sometimes I’ll hear women open up about it and realize they’re just some freaks too😝

Nikki1989 · Answer

Women, or at least the woman I know anyway. The difference is, we keep our thoughts to ourselves or just among friends. We don't come to a website like this to talk about filth.

sawno · Answer

Women, no doubt about it. Men on average are more visual, women use their imagination. Combine that with the privacy of nobody knowing and she has free reign to explore her sexual fantasies without social stigma or any limits.

molonski2 · Answer

I think men may win the poll , but I believe the honest answer is women , from all my experiences anyhow , and women analyse everything , and every action.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Women, for sure. Women are absolute horndogs and they have a bunch of social stigma associated with their sexuality, so it's laced with pent up frustration.

They just let it out in chaotic, awkward, mildly alarming bursts

marfaret · Answer

i really don't know, it depends on each person's personality and how she/he impacted by friends and environment.  to sum up, women are a bit more dreamy to their boyfriends.🗿

Anonymous · Answer

I would say guys only because I’m a guy. But one thing I do know is I’ve been surprised by a few women who you’d think are more the “innocent” type and I’ve been surprised by a few women who you would think are “easier” because of the type of lifestyle they portray.

Anonymous · Answer

I can have very dirty thoughts in some situations, but not all the time the way guys do. There's nothing wrong with it, that's just the way guys are biologically.

Jhoward · Answer

I know how I am, when checking out a guy or thinking about a guy I know I'm thinking about there dick the size and how they use it

convo_king89 · Answer

Women have a preety low standard, it’s doesn’t take much to say she has a dirty mind like reading an erotic book. Guys it’s almost expected to have dirty mind with all the dirty jokes and our instincts.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I think it’s equal. And yeah, I get that way sometimes too.

Communicationisking · Answer

My girl has the same thoughts as me, but there is no option on the poll for both

Crazyced · Answer

Men by a longshot in my opinion, testosterone tends to do that. But women are also very good a concealing how dirty their mind actually is.

Rimaisme · Answer

They both have. Men are vocal about it Female are not

FreyaRed · Answer

I don't know about others but I have innocent mindset of a kawaii schoolgirl right now 😈

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I think men think about sex more and make everything sexual, but women have kinkier fantasies

Kaneki05 · Answer

We all are. Girls just try to lie or hide it more.

Mark987 · Answer

In todays society would definetely say women have changed a lot and can compare to men. It is also easy to know that it is WAY easier for a woman to have sex than a man.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i wish i knew. but i don't think they make a cleaner strong enough for my mind.

Miristheiss · Answer

Probably men. I mean men have more weird kinks and fetishes then women I believe.

HungTexan · Answer

In general I think women have dirtier minds. They can be really nasty and fun.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Men Blame them for always fantasizing about women wanting anal sex from men

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I have to vote for us, Sorry, look at my username D:

Brucewayne123 · Answer

Men and it’s not even close. I know you girls think you can be dirty but TRUST me when I tell you you are no way near as dirty.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Totally individualized. Billy Joel was wrong... Those Catholic girls did NOT grow up too late and had PLENTY of fun with the sinners...

GingerJess · Answer

I think overall men, but I have a very dirty kinky open mind for a married mom of 2 so there are girls out there that make it more even than you would think.

Apple1996 · Answer

Probably women 🙃

knottyguy · Answer

Really? The poll shows women have a dirtier mind? lol. Where are they all at then? Not here :(

LiamJHayden · Answer

It is individual. When I was doing F-boy stuff I thought I had a dirty mind, but some of the women far outdid me.

WonderingManII · Answer

I'm surprised I always thought Men had the dirty minds.

Anonymous · Answer

In my experience, women. In all my interactions women are virtually always the first to bring up sex. It kind of makes me wonder what thier preoccupation with it is.

worldscolide · Answer

Its about the same. Difference is women are quieter about it.

MrTaboo · Answer

from my experience, dudes. I have never seen women constantly embarrass guys. but guys do that all the time.

Pete671 · Answer

Women, once they get seriously horny there are no boundaries it seems lol,,,

Rare_Gem · Answer

I personally have a dirty mind. I’m told dirtier than most😏 but on average I think men do.

Anonymous · Answer

As a virgin, I can't be sure, I presume it's all individual.  Both men and women can be perverted, or prudent.

Anonymous · Answer

Men usually , some women have dirty minds too tho

Hubby4u2 · Answer

They need to be more comfortable and more welcoming to share and explore each other's fantasies

NathanDavis · Answer

well... now I'm dirty...

billmunch · Answer

In my relationship, it's my wife. I've never seen such a cock goblin. She prolly sleeps with 30-35 different guys a year.

Anonymous · Answer

most men's dark fantasies would make you want him locked up forever.

Anonymous · Answer

We're all perverts, men just get called out on it more.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm surprised by the results  I would have said men  Because who watches porn? Men Who pays for sex? Men

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Literally the same. The evil thoughts that men have women have as well. And the more degenerate a person is the more disgusting thoughts they have.

Funnygirl1500 · Answer

The dirtiest mind is... ME!

Connie88 · Answer

Women just know how to hide it better.

serious · Answer

It is not gender based

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