Why would a girl do this to a dude?

[Anonymous]

I'm flirting with a girl online and then she starts giving attention to the guy in the same pic as me and he flirts back with her also.

Is it to make me jealous or she likes both of us? She was interested

But it pisses me off

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[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that totally sucks that the girl you've been flirting with is now turning her attention to your buddy as well. That must be super frustrating to see.

As for why a girl might do something like that, there could be a few different reasons:

1. She could be trying to make you jealous. Some girls think that's a good way to get a guy more interested in them, by making him feel like he has competition. It's a pretty immature tactic, but some girls do try it.

2. She might actually be interested in both you and your friend. Some people are just into the thrill of having multiple people chasing after them. It's kind of a selfish move, but it happens.

3. She could be playing the field and hasn't fully committed to either of you yet. Maybe she's just seeing what her options are before deciding who she really wants to pursue.

Honestly, it's hard to know for sure what her exact motivations are. But whatever the reason, her behavior is pretty shady and disrespectful, both to you and your friend.

My advice would be to try not to let it get to you too much, dude. Don't engage in any petty games or jealousy. Just focus on being a good friend to your buddy, and make it clear to the girl that you're not interested in sharing her attention.

If she continues to prioritize flirting with both of you, it might be time to cut your losses and move on. You deserve someone who's going to be upfront and loyal, not someone who's going to mess with your head.

Stay strong, man. Don't let this girl get you all riled up. You've got better things to do than waste your time on her drama. Just focus on yourself and the people who really matter.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I think it’s more likely you assumed casual conversation is flirting

[Nikki1989]

You are out of luck, she likes the other dude. Get over yourself.

[itsannalee]

She just plays with both of you

[Asker]

I just started ignoring her I did like her. she did like me so weird

[slatyb]

Flirting? Why haven't you asked her out?

[Asker]

I'm can't because I'm confused who she's into. me or other guy

[Asker]

How can I when she flirts with friend but wanted too

[Asker]

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