So this Asian woman has been flirting with me and just told me she's married-wtf?

[kriskiss]

So there is this woman in my neighborhood who has been walking by my house a lot and use to alys flirt with me a lot. She has a daughter and works at a local chinese restaurant. I was away for the summer and I just saw her today she was like I didn't see your car the whole summer where were you. And she was totally flirting with me and checking out my bod, etc. And when I use to go in to buy food she would always undercharge me and put smiley faces on my receipts, etc. So anyway tonight when I was talking to her when she was in my neighborhood I was like so lets go out sometime and do something...i was look are you involved or married and she was like yeah I'm married for twelve years by arranged marriage. which means she's probably not happy who knows. she continues to flirt and act like she wants me. so should I let it go or ask her out and go from friend to lover or how should I go about getting with her or should I def. let this go and why? she ss she's married but she's always alone and never seen her with a dude. so who knows if she's lyin

[magnoliacrush]

Yea.. this is very common in situations like hers. Most Asian women had an arranged marriage tend to just want a fling. Possibly, she's probably not getting any attention at home and is really deprived of attention or whatever it is. Point is, she wants to feel adored and loved for one night with no strings attached. She is never going to leave her husband because he gives her financial support. It's sad but true.

Up to you if you want to get involved.

[kriskiss]

thanks for the advice ill keep you posted ya I wanted my flinging her I don't wanna marry her or xpect her to leave her husband but she so yum yum...hahahah thanks

[magnoliacrush]

"she's so yum yum" <--- for some reason that's slightly racist lol. But yea, no problem.

[NerdInDenial]

She just wants to give you a happy ending. The right thing to do is to remain friends with her, but if you think she's hot and you can get away with it, I guess you can do it.

[kriskiss]

hahaha thanks

[guy532]

STAY OUT OF IT!...unless you want to spend the rest of your life with her, she's not worth even 1/100th of the hassle

[dudeman]

girls cheat as much as men, if you get her pregnant, she will probably tell the guy its his

[Curmudgeon]

This is America---can't she just get divorced?