What are the redflags for rejecting reletionship after first date?

[Anonymous]

When you go on a first date, sometimes the other person says a lot of nonsense. You may get excited and talk nonsense too. But the reactions of the other person in this situation are very important.

What are the reasons that will prevent you from giving a second chance after a bad first date? What are the redflags?

[KittygosMeoWW]

How he talks to me… a lot of men I’ve gone on dates with in the past talk at me not with me. They’re so self centered it feels like I’m talking to an adolescent girl. The second biggest red flag is if he asks me why I’m single and he asks or over shares about previous partners, third is 50/50 I will never go on a date without financially being able to cover both of our stuff in case of an emergency but… a man should court a lady. If you invite me out I’m a prize and treat me well if you’d like to win me over, show me you value my time and the effort I put into looking extra good by paying for my meal at least or whatever you invite me to do. Lastly a huge red flag is how he treats other people while driving/at the place we’re having the date.

[Asker]

Very good answer, thank you. It was educational.