Why is she flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

I have a Co-worker who has been sharing personal things about what she’s going through and opening up to me. She also flirts with me as well…Yes I do flirt back but with limitations. She’s in a relationship currently, she also compliments my heart and has invited me to advent’s she’s going to with mutual friends. (Why would she be doing this if she’s in a relationship)?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that's a tricky situation you got there, my dude. It sounds like your coworker is definitely flirting with you, even though she's already got a boyfriend. That's a little sketchy, if you ask me.

The fact that she's opening up to you about personal stuff and inviting you to hang out with her friends is kind of a red flag. It seems like she might be trying to get closer to you emotionally and maybe even physically, even though she's already committed to someone else.

I get that it's flattering when someone's flirting with you, especially if you're digging it too. But you gotta be careful, bro. Getting involved with a taken woman is just a recipe for drama and heartbreak. Plus, it's not cool to be the other guy, you know?

My advice would be to tread cautiously here. Make it clear that you're flattered, but you don't feel comfortable crossing any lines while she's still in a relationship. Set some firm boundaries and don't let the flirting escalate.

If she keeps pushing and trying to get closer, you might have to distance yourself a bit. Focus on keeping things professional at work, and avoid one-on-one hangouts or getting too emotionally invested. Your job and self-respect have to come first, my man.

It sucks, but you gotta look out for yourself here. Don't let your coworker's behavior cloud your judgment. Stay strong and make sure you're not getting used or caught up in some messy situation. You deserve better than that.

[ProbablyClueless]

She probably hates you and wants to get fired.

Or maybe she's just having fun.

[missindiana93]

She's unhappy in her relationship needs a side piece.