Why is that everytime I meet a guy, my guy friend is always in the way or say I’m his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

He did that when we were in high school. Like when I meet a guy, he immediately don’t like him and says I’m his girlfriend and the guy walks away.
I got angry at him and scolded why and I’m not his woman.

He told me we went to prom twice together so that means I’m his girlfriend. He never asked me to be his girlfriend or who I felt. He once asked, “Are you my girlfriend?” I just looked at him and walked off.
One of my former teachers said, that’s twice that he asked you. He REALLY likes you a LOT.

No other guys want to go with me. I went with my crush and he abandoned me. I’ve had a boyfriend but he cheated on me.
My guy friend needs to get a clue and accept that I’ll never have the same feelings for him. I was a very heavy girl at 266lbs and 5’11”. I wasn’t those hot, girls or the thin/slim girls. My guy friend was the only guy that asked me to prom. He’s was a big boy, tall and overweight too. Everytime Valentine’s Day or a dance comes up, he always asked me out or to go the dance with him. I would hide from him. I did reject him so many times. He had a girlfriend once. He admitted to me that he kept thinking about me in the fourth month they dated. There’s other women that would want to go with him. The average height and shirt slim girls got asked out by cute guys or guys. I was ignored by cute guys. A hot guy rejected me. I don’t even text my guy friend much. I told him in the past we’re just friends.

I know there’s other women that would want to go out with him but he always wants to go with me. He said one day my heart with be after him and realize that he is the right guy for me and I’m blind.

[Anonymous]

Because he wants to fuck you. Maybe he wants an actual relationship w you. That’s why he cock blocks other dudes. You’re not interested in him?

[Asker]

Hell no!

[Opinion Owner]

Why not?

[Asker]

Because I’m not attracted to him but my friends and family know he likes me STILL. I thought middle school or high school crushes don’t last long..

[Opinion Owner]

They can last a lifetime. There’s no time limit on it

[NicIsmyusername]

I'm not trying to sound rude but what more can he do for you? I wish I had a friend that would do half the stuff he's done for you and it sounds kind of rude when you said you've turned him down when he invites you to dances and other events. I'm sorry this isn't what you wanted to hear but you should get him while you can because you never appreciate what you have until it's gone.
Either way best of luck to you

[Asker]

I went to prom with him twice. The second time no other guy wanted to go with me and some rejected me. This is what’s wrong with you dudes. You don’t want to accept that you got rejected and you need to let it go. If someone doesn’t like you, MOVE on. My guy friend REFUSES to move on and he texts me EVERYDAY. I mean it’s very sweet but come on! So you’re telling me I should date a man that I’m not attracted too? Us woman ALWAYS get told what to do!
I never get the man I want. I didn’t appreciate you being so rude to me. I’m grown!
I only turned him down when he asked me out or prom the other third and fourth time he asked me. He invited me to movies and outings with other friends and I went!

[NicIsmyusername]

Ok like I said I wasn't trying to sound rude at all but I'm not gonna sit here and try to defend myself either, as I just said I wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide to do. This is the last thing I'll say, you don't miss it until it's gone. Now if you interpret that as me being rude, you need medical help.

[Asker]

Look I see what you’re saying and you have a point but why would I go out with someone that I don’t have feelings for? Even after high school he still asked me out for Valentines or ask me.

[DryGermanGuy]

His dream job is to be a professional cock-blocker. Get some healthy distance to him.

[Asker]

I don’t know what you mean but he isn’t like that. He’s a kind guy but he needs to give other girls a chance but he refuses too.

[Wise4myage]

You need to lose that guy as a friend, he thinks you belong to him.

[Asker]

We’ll I don’t wanna do that. We’ve been friends since second grade. He needs to accept that we’re just friends

[Wise4myage]

I understand, have you told him?

[Asker]

Yes! So MANY TIMES! He always has this hurt look and said he’s in love with me and those feelings will never go away.

[Wise4myage]

Wow, that’s just not right and I feel for you.

[Asker]

Yeah and my family says I should give him a chance if he asks me out.

[Wise4myage]

I don’t see that helping

[Asker]

no it is not

[Anonymous]

It is simple. He wants to be your boyfriend.

[Asker]

We’ll I don’t want to be his girlfriend. My parents like him a lot. Even my dad encourages me to give him a chance. He’s better than them good looking jerks I’ve been dating. Why do I always attract fat or average looking dudes? Some people have nice looking partners and they’re amazing to them. Why do I have to date a chubby guy just because I’m a big girl? I’m now 178lbs. My guy friend said I look beautiful even at 266lbs he didn’t care how big I was.
I was never the hot girl or the slim petite or average height girls.

[Opinion Owner]

I think you need to reconsider before you use him all together. He sounds like a good person who will treat you right.

[Asker]

Why should I reconsider? I mean he is a good guy and I do appreciate him but I just don’t feel the same way. I’ve told him.
Even after high school he still ask me out.

[Opinion Owner]

That is completely up to you. However, you will only have yourself to blame when the gentleman who truly cares about you walks out of your life forever.

[Asker]

So I should date him?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, you should date him. Just give it a chance. He sounds like a gentleman who cares for you deeply.

[Asker]

I’m not attracted to him.
My sister had to knock some sense into me to realize that he has ALWAYS been the one for me since day one. She’s frustrated with me now because I’m not “seeing it”. I’m sick of people suggesting me to go out with him. People get angry when I reject someone I don’t have feelings for.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, then you might just have to find out the hard way when you are old and alone looking back at your decision of rejecting the man who truly cares for you.

[Asker]

Hahahah that’s not going to happen. I’ll find someone. I never understood why people FORCE others to date someone. Whatever happened to freedom of speech.
His best friend told me he loves me and he is still in love with me, even after high school he still asks me out and I keep turning him down! He also said, “Stop turning him down, stop being afraid about what happens with you exes and just take a chance in real love. You’re obviously afraid of a real relationship. I told him if you keep rejecting him just move out and you don’t see his worth and any woman would be so lucky to have a man like him in their lives! I be damned if you hurt my best friend! The boy is in love with you! In LOVE. Do what you want but if you end up single and you’re 70 years old, you will regret it because you’re so selfish and self sabotage yourself. You needed to hear it from someone.”
Ugh! He needs to get over himself.

[Opinion Owner]

I seriously hope he breaks away from you. He is the one who will move on and find somebody because he is true, and you just want men who are losers and will treat you like dirt.

[Asker]

Wow seriously?
😳😳😳
I don’t want losers. That was brutal

[Opinion Owner]

Then pick him. He is a winner who will treat you like a Queen.

[Asker]

Fine!!! I will! But what if another guy shows interest in me or if I meet someone else? Do I HAVE to tell my guy friend? I feel like I have to let him know. I’m allowed to flirt with other men. I’m single!

[Opinion Owner]

No, you need to commit to him and only him and you will be happy for the rest of your life.

[Asker]

No I mean! What if another guy shows isn’t if he DOESN’T ask me out! Let’s say I met another guy now (which I’m not). Sorry I wasn’t specific. We’re both single.

[Asker]

If he and I were a couple then yes I’ll commit to him.

[Opinion Owner]

You have to ask him out at this point. You have given signals that you only like him as a friend. He is not going to have the courage to ask you out, because he is afraid you will say no and break his heart.

[Asker]

Why should I ask him out? Why is everyone so against me wanting to be just friends!!! He needs to move in. I can flirt with other guys! If he really liked me, he would have done that a long time ago! He had the guts to ask me out to prom. We went as friend! I should not have to be forced to date someone I only see as a friend but I guess I don’t have a choice but too. If other men ask me out I’ll have to reject him because My guy friend likes me. I shouldn’t have permission to flirt or see other guys. My dad even said if I end up seeing another guy I will break my guy friends heart and just ask him out and he is the man for me but I’m too stubborn to admit it.
Ugh! Love is hard

[Opinion Owner]

Everything with him seems to be about friends for you. He is all too aware of that but wants to be your boyfriend. He is not going to ask at this point because he knows what your response will be. You need to stop keeping him in the friend zone and ask him out.

[Anonymous]

You are a cocktease and you are leading him on. If you wanted him gone, he'd be gone.