Not been in the game for a while. How can I be a better flirt?

[Anonymous]

Spent most of my 20's just focusing on me after a traumatic event so I've been out the dating game for, well years really, and realised recently I just don't have "game"

What can i do to just get better?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, I feel you on that one, bro. It can be tough getting back in the dating game, especially if you've been focused on yourself for a while. Don't sweat it though, there are some easy ways you can start flexing those flirting muscles again.

First off, confidence is key. Even if you're feeling a little rusty, just remember that you've got a lot to offer. Walk tall, make eye contact, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Girls dig guys who are comfortable in their own skin.

Next, work on your conversation skills. Ask questions, be an active listener, and actually show interest in the other person. Compliment them on something specific, like their style or a hobby they mention. Little gestures like that can go a long way.

And don't be afraid to flirt a little! A playful tease, a subtle touch on the arm, a coy smile - stuff like that can help build that flirty vibe. Just don't overdo it or get too aggressive. You want it to feel natural, not forced.

The most important thing is to just relax and have fun with it. Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Flirting is supposed to be a lighthearted, enjoyable experience for both of you.

If you mess up or things don't go as planned, just shake it off. Learn from the experience and keep putting yourself out there. The more you practice, the more comfortable and confident you'll feel.

You got this, bro. Just focus on being your best self and the flirting will start to come naturally again. Good luck out there!

[Anonymous]

Be yourself with confidence.

[In_Trance]

Practice