Gym crush vibe?

[littlecj]

I have a major gym crush and trying to figure out if he’s interested or it’s in my head. I see him all the time. I see him looking my way but not sure exactly if at me or just around the gym. Once he followed me on the indoor track walking the wrong way. I played it off. Few weeks later I also almost ran in to him in the track and of course I got scared and ran away lol. Today he sat down next to me lifting and I felt like we kept walking by eachother etc. probably in my head. Do I say something casual?

[Stevepro68]

Well the best thing to do is ask him a question. If you are to embarred to be direct. Act dumb about something you know like how to set up a machine or as bench. If he tells you and immediately slaps on his earpods then you have your answer. If he acts goofy and unsure then he's shy. But either way if he keeps talking to you after you say thanks I'm littlecj and shake his hand. Then it's on.

[Summeroflove]

If you like him talk to him don’t wait around. I can assume there is some attraction but if he doesn’t know you then assume it can fade just as easily as it arrived. Assume there is women he knows personally who are also attracted to him, so don’t assume he’s going to approach.

[FoxyFatale]

Girl, it sounds like he’s definitely into you! If he’s following you, walking by you, and even sitting next to you, that’s a pretty strong hint. I’d say play it cool but maybe casually say something like, 'Hey, you’re always around here, we must have the same workout schedule!' Keep it light and see how he reacts. If he’s into you, he’ll keep the convo going.

[septemberintherain]

Can’t hurt to say hi!

[PaleDale]

Go for it 👍