Gym crush advice-?

[Callahan90]

Ok.. I’ve been seeing this guy at the gym for 6+ months now. I have a total crush on him.
It all started when I was having trouble holding 2 doors open (vestibule) for this older man with a walker- this guy (gym crush) ran over and helped me hold the doors open for this older man. (I thought that was so nice obvi)

Later I kept seeing him at the gym but didn’t think much of it. A few times I’d notice him and we’d make eye contact.

3 weeks ago I was running on the treadmill and he walks down this pathway turns towards me and just stares at me- then walks back past me and leave the gym. So my thoughts were, “oh! He’s trying to get my attention “

this happened 2x where I felt he was going out of his way to make sure I saw him and made eye contact with me.

A few times I was nervous and looked away quickly.. but now i keep trying to catch his eyes Bc I notice him but i feel like he looks away.

So my question is… did I make up his interest in my own head lol does this guy just think I’m a freak now Bc I keep looking at him, or what? Also- any advice appreciated.

Sincerely, the girl who might be creepy.

[BTigers96]

No, you're not creepy for being interested in him.

Maybe just figure out a way to cross paths in the gym and say something nonchalant like "hey" as you're passing by, or "you look so much like someone I know" etc... anything just to get him talking. Definitely keep smiling, he may be shy too. Just seem approachable. Good luck!

[Avicenna]

You can get past all that by smiling and starting a convo. People know it can be awkward starting convos.

[WhitneySnow]

He’s flirting with you. Hopefully he’ll get the message and actually come over and talk to you.

[Anonymous]

i've had gym crushes before and they never seemed to go anywhere and been told most of the girls at the gym aren't even single cause there too desirable and have already meet someone but i live in a small town where there generally isn't a lot of younger singles to begin with.

[Iron_Man]

Guys at a gym are looking to get laid if he likes you he’ll like somebody else don’t be fooled