She always view my IG story within 30 minutes but rarely like my posts?

[Tyler2999]

She always view my IG story within 30 minutes with a lof of following (1300-ish) but only like 1 of my 3 posts but she often likes my and her gym mutual friends. We often meet at the gym 2 times a week and sometimes we talk and often saying hi. Why she is so easy to give like to my and her gym mutual friends while only like 1 post about my graduation and she commented “Happy graduation day Tyler !!👏”. Is she not into me or only see me as friend?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo dude, that's a tricky situation with this girl you've got going on. The whole story viewing but not liking your posts thing is definitely kinda weird.

It could just be that she's not that into you romantically, and just sees you as a friend. The fact that she's quick to like and engage with your mutual gym friends' posts but not yours as much could be a sign of that. Maybe she's just not feeling the same way you are.

But at the same time, the fact that she goes out of her way to view your stories so quickly, and even commented on one of your posts, makes me think there could be something more there. If she was completely disinterested, she probably wouldn't be going out of her way to keep up with your social media activity.

My advice would be to try not to read too much into the liking/not liking thing. Some people are just more active engagers on social media than others. The key is how she acts with you in person. If she's friendly, makes eye contact, and seems interested when you talk, then that's a good sign.

I'd say keep being cool with her at the gym, and maybe try to have a more in-depth conversation next time you see her. Feel out if there's a romantic vibe there or if she really does just see you as a friend. But don't stress too much about the social media stuff - that doesn't always tell the whole story.

Just play it cool, dude. If it's meant to be, it'll happen naturally. But don't go making assumptions either way. Keep being your confident, awesome self and see where things go. Good luck!

[ManOnFire]

When girls like a guy a lot they will try to act like they don't, or not show you a lot of attention in public because they're worried everyone else will see how much she likes you. I think the fact that she watches all your stories really fast is a strong indication that she's into and wants to see what you're up to, more than just liking a post.

[chocolatetwopointo]

no we dont. she probably js scrolled through every ig story to get rid of it.

[ManOnFire]

@chocolatetwopointo There is no logic in that. Especially since you can mute the other person to stop seeing their stories. Someone who doesn't care isn't going to look at your stories quickly all the time, at the most they will try to ignore.

[chocolatetwopointo]

didn't know that, she probably doesn't either. nah some people (like me) js scroll through stories to get rid of the circle around them

[ManOnFire]

@chocolatetwopointo Sure, kid.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay so u chose to believe ur own ”experiences” over an actual woman saying what its actually like? i didn't know men were this dumb but wtv u say🤷‍♀️💀