Who was your first real crush?

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I can actually remember as far back as kindergarten. There was a dark-haired girl named Mary. But the first real one would be from fifth grade. There was a girl named Duwana who was kind of a hippie girl. I think she might have been part native American.

petitedollbabee · Accepted Answer

An islander boy called Turoko. He was a good friend of mine as a kid. He became my first “boyfriend” at age 7, lol! After a week, he kissed me on the cheek and broke up with me. A day later he had a new girlfriend in our class. It turned out he did that to every girl in the class 😂 “date” them for a week, kiss their cheek and then move on to the next girl. But I had a crush on him for years. Even these days I think about it sometimes, he moved out of the country when we were 10, I hope he’s doing well.

XXblack88 · Accepted Answer

Being shy I never made a move but I was 14 or 15 he was a short guy if I remember correctly his name is David and he is white

Genie23 · Answer

There was a cute, shy, introverted boy. I think his name was Rohit or Rohan. I can't remember 😭 We went to same school until I passed 4th standard and went to different school. I think I had a crush on him when I was in second or third standard. He would look at me from distance and whenever I'd look back, he would look away while blushing. This kept on happening for a while, lol. He even tried to come and talk to me. He was bit nervous as he stammered a bit and was loss at words. I was shy and reserved when I was little so I would rather avoid talking to most people especially him as having him around gave me butterfly stomach feeling so I just gave him a cold one word responses (didn't intend to but happened) and kept our conversation super short as my heart was beating very fast, so I cut it off to avoid making it obvious that I like him 🤣

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

Ashley Bakker in the 4th grade.

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

It was this girl back in high school, AP Psychology, when I was in the 10th grade, 16 years old. Part of the influence could've been that Psychology was my favorite class, and the teacher for that class was also my favorite teacher. That and I had an assumption that AP kids were more intelligent than the average kid.

This girl, looking back, she was above average in looks but not that attractive looking back. Like definitely nowhere near ugly, but I really hyped her up in my head.

My attraction to her was low-key kind of creepy. I was obsessed with her for like all of 10th grade, an entire year. And I had only talked to her like twice the whole year.

As for her personality... I barely knew much about it, but from what I observed on the outside from interactions with other classmates, she seemed sort of chill-ish. She was definitely the preppy popular girl type, athletic as well, also a cheerleader. She seemed polite, always saying please and thank you. She was kind of goofy sometimes. She seemed generally outgoing.

I didn't know her personally at all though. This was the only basis I had.

Either way, I also screwed up things really bad with her.

So she had held the door for me several times, like I don't know, 3 or 4 times, and I was so nervous I forgot to say thank you.

Then the like the 5th time I finally built up the courage to say thank you, and very loudly in front of everyone she screamed: "OH MY GOD THANK YOU FOR SAYING THANK YOU! FOR ONCE IN YOUR LIFE AFTER AN ENTIRE YEAR OF BEING RUDE YOU LEARNED TO BE A DECENT PERSON! THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN, HAVE A GREAT AND WONDERFUL DAY, AND I HOPE NO ONE KICKS YOUR ASS GOING FORWARD!!!"

And she wasn't joking either. She was genuinely mad.

I also tried sending friend requests to her on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter... expectedly, she blocked my ass, lol.

I basically handled everything in the worst, most creepy way possible.

You can say she overreacted, but I DID have like a solid 3 to 4 times to say thank you properly. That was 100% on me.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Ewwww this guy called Matthew in secondry school. He never noticed me until we turned 15 and were both on the the thick table together at school. He was a good footballer and all round athlete at school so he got a lot of girls from that.

We used to stair at each other through all are classes and lunch time but I wanted him to ask me out and he was too shy to.

I gave up and relised I didn't want a boyfriend in high-school.

He later messaged me when I was 21 and I just met my future husband also named Matthew. It was the typical Facebook messager fuck boy shit and he'd just broken up with a friend of my mine. I completely ignored him and when he confronted me in public I told him he was 10 years too late.

Plus looking back he really wasn't attractive at all and know he's gotten fat and so he only dates fat weird girls

DancingQueen16 · Answer

My first ever crush was in 3rd grade and his name was Austin he was funny, creative, smart and we were actually good friends and I kept my feelings for a secret for the entire school year anyway fast forward to the first day of 4th grade and I didn't see Austin in my class or the other 4th grade class so I asked my best friend to see if she knew anything and she told me that he moved during the summer and I was sad anyway fast forward again and it's the day of the arts festival which is this thing my elementary school had every year and he was there helping out and I think I was talking to a friend during recess and he came over and said hi to me and he did it again when it was getting close to time to go home he came to my classroom to say goodbye and gave me a hug

MrChinaski · Answer

Her name was Hilda. I was 14. She is the only lost love in my life because I was too shy at the time. I don't know what she is doing these days. I hope good things.

I've tried to reach out if only for nostalgia 2 or 3 times but haven't reconnected.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Oh, there’ve been so many. Probably a petite brunette named Bobby. She was badass. Like dating college guys at 14… We talked quite a bit, but never “went out”. Almost certainly a missed opportunity. She could’ve taught me so much at that age 😂

Onyyxlexingale · Answer

My first real first crush was in 3rd grade with this quiet boy with dark black hair and porcelain skin named Evan, he would always sit next to me and would rarely talk but I could tell he was smart and emotionally intelligent as we also shared the same birthday which made him even more unforgettable as he brought cupcakes and noticing that I didn't have anything for my birthday offered half of the cupcakes, but I couldn't take them so we went around the halls to give the cupcakes to our favorite teachers and school employees.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

A polygamous 9yo girl named Florence, she had three different and simultaneous crushes. The three of us were getting along well despite sharing the same SO.

I didn't develop any specific taste for polygamy after that. Just saying...

Godihateyou · Answer

I can't even remember her name. I was 5. She had an Eye patch and she was my twin brothers girlfriend. She tied my shoes and punched an Indian girl in the mouth because she shoved me into a play refrigerator and wouldn't let me out.

Panthero80 · Answer

Her name was Molly. She played on a summer softball league with my sister, but we went to different schools. She was one year younger than me and one summer I saw her and thought "she is kind of cute. The next summer I saw her, and I thought "holy moley!"She had developed a body during that schoolyear, and she may have been a cute 12-year-old, but she was a beautiful 13-year-old.

Miristheiss · Answer

I don't know. I've had crushes my entire life. I had a crush on this girl for 2 years in 2nd and 3rd grade.

NicholasRedone · Answer

@andresc64 far too many lusted after ❤️‍🔥🤍🤍🤍❤️‍🔥

JHNS98 · Answer

Define "real". I had several crushes throughout my teens, even made a move on some. Didn't get anywhere though, because I always wanted a neutral environment. I feel really stupid about that strategy nowadays with hindsight.

LiamJHayden · Answer

y first and only crush was Margo Harshman when I was 10.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

My neighbor when I was 9. She was 12. We were both into X-Men.

Sophia001 · Answer

My elder brother's best friend

MJVillarama · Answer

Haha I remember my first crush too , feels like a lifetime ago

serious · Answer

Never had any crushes in my life.

CubaPirate · Answer

Miss Roberts my High School Drama Teacher

Nikki1989 · Answer

Never had one. That is an immature teenager thing.

Jeff51 · Answer

Tracy in 5th grade

Eleni03 · Answer

My kindergarten teacher.

Bloodparadise · Answer

My classmate

LightingBugg · Answer

My brother was my first crush.

MinaV · Answer

A red furred teddy bear

uncutgem · Answer

vida Guerrera was mine

Quetaismymiddlename · Answer

Tobey Maguire

Neliii1234 · Answer

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