I had a crush on this girl years ago she recently liked an old pic from a few years ago and 2 highlights from a few months ago do I slide in her dm?

[Anonymous]

yes I made it a little clear that she was the most beautiful girl in the world to me few years ago (2021) Nothing took place, she deactivated her ig until now she recently has appeared at midnight to like my post from 3 years ago and 2 highlights from months ago she didn’t follow me and I don’t follow her, her account is private Do I slide in her dm or leave it be

[SueShe]

No, you let her be and don't attempt anything anymore. Let her be and avoid contacting her since time has passed and both you and her have moved on.

I have no idea what his privacy in the account means but the fact that she did not follow you simply means that she is no longer interested in pursuing something.

What is your ultimate goal by attempting to slide into her DM? Are you hoping to eventually get into her pants? Since you had a crush on her and that this crush was not reciprocated, the best thing to do for you is simply to ignore her.

[Asker]

we never had anything to begin i simply had a crush on her cus she was pretty, we had mutuals but never got to know one another. Then she deleted her account for her personal reasons I don't know. So I could never actually see if she was interested in a date or not. And my ultimate goal was to take her out on a date get to know her and let whatever happens from there whether it be another date or move on depending on how the first went. I just totally forgot about her cus she didn’t exist anymore & every super blue moon I’d think about her but not to the point where I needed to find her or talk to her. The fact 3 years later she still went and found my account is where I didn’t know to take it as a sign or not

[Abbycado]

@SueShe butt, butt….. there is always a chance.

[Asker]

@Abbycado I’m sayin maybe it might be the time ! Lol my 2 fortunes from fortune cookies the other day did say I’ll meet the loml unexpectedly

[Abbycado]

If that ain’t a sign, I don’t know what is!

Was the Chinese food good? Tell me you got lo mein.

[SueShe]

@Abbycado 🤣True, no butts or ifs (I feel sexy)

[Abbycado]

[SueShe]

@Abbycado 🤭 So, that's what booty is like.

[Asker]

@Abbycado 100% got lo mein 😂😂😂

[EmmaMary]

Why not "slide it" in further by giving her a damn good fucking... Simples!

[Asker]

Ahahaha 🤣🤣

[EmmaMary]

"Food for Thought" perhaps?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AI Opinion]

Hey there! 😊 It sounds like a intriguing situation with your past crush. The fact that she's liking some of your older posts might mean she's reminiscing or interested in reconnecting. If you're comfortable with it, sending her a friendly message could be a nice way to break the ice and see where things stand now. You could start with something light and casual, perhaps mentioning that it's nice to see her back on Instagram. Remember, there's no pressure, so follow your instincts and see how you feel about reaching out. Good luck! 🤞

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's a tricky situation, my dude. On one hand, the fact that she's been going back and liking your old posts could be a sign that she's still got some feelings for you. But on the other hand, it's been a few years and a lot can change.

I'd be a little cautious about sliding into her DMs out of the blue. She might just be feeling nostalgic or curious, and reaching out could come off as too forward. You don't wanna risk making her uncomfortable, you feel me?

My advice would be to play it cool for now. Don't overthink the likes and highlights too much - she could just be bored and browsing old stuff, you never know. If you really wanna reconnect, try to run into her in person first and strike up a casual conversation. See how that goes before you jump straight to the DMs.

If you do decide to slide in, just keep it low-key and casual. Don't come on too strong or bring up the old crush right away. Feel her out, see if there's still a vibe there. But don't be too surprised if she's just not feeling it anymore. People change a lot in a few years.

Either way, just play it cool, bro. Don't overthink it or get your hopes up too much. Focus on being a chill, respectful dude, and let whatever happens, happen. You got this!

[Nikki1989]

[Asker]

Real

[Anonymous]

Yes, maybe you should try.