I like someone at work but I know he's not interested in me. How do I forget him?

[Anonymous]

I was working in a place where there were a lot of women. We had a full chat in one and he told me his whole personal life. I know he is older than me. I wrote here too and you said he was just being polite. I said oh then I misunderstood and continued. But yesterday we were in the same class again and we had a little chat. He remembered my name which is a big deal for me because the women I worked in her class pretended not to know my name. I know he is still a kind person but I started to like him... how will I forget him? Monday is my last day of work by the way

[slatyb]

How do you know he's not interested? Unless you know he is married or in a long term relationship, ask him to lunch or dinner or whatever.

[Asker]

How should I say it? I mean, we work in a kindergarten and there are dozens of women here. I know he's not married. But he learned my age and pulled back a little. He's 28 years old at most and I'm still studying at university. I think he's just being nice to me.

[Asker]

Do you think if he was interested in me, he would want to talk to me a little more? He was distant the last time I saw him. What can a guy who likes me do in this situation?

[serious]

Well, try to distract yourself by doing some activities that you like.

[jazzy34]

Crushes fade. It’ll go away eventually. Just focus on your work and you’ll be fine. 😊

[Asker]

Yea i think so 🥲

[jazzy34]

You will. 😊

[Anonymous]

You are old enough to know what's to be done. Figure it yourself.