Has a girl ever thrown herself at you?

[Anonymous]

Has a school friend or waitress or cashier or someone in your office ever let you know, without saying anything, she's yours for the taking?

Or do you always have to work for it.

[MannMitAntworten]

A number of times. They were attractive … but … something about their personality/character never sits right with me with those who have. I remember being guilted into taking one of them out by their best friend when still living in Utah. I picked her up and her Mom who briefly worked for me tells me, “Every guy says they aren’t interested but after one date they all want her.” I was not joining the club. Anyway, as the date carried on she turns and without hesitation tells me, “You know you can fuck me.” Duh … I am painfully aware. I response, “I know.” Shortly later while seated she straddles me with her lips close and says it again. Again I say, “I know…” then with that she pauses and says, “You really aren’t interested are you?” “No. I’m not.” With that she finally relents. She doesn’t stop having interest in me. She just stops with her trying moving forward. I drop her off at home, walk her to the door and tell her Mom, “I’m still not interested!” Thing is, I understood why all the other guys before me suddenly became interested … she was providing sex. In Utah, even the best little Mormon boys would have likely become momentarily stupid in their head when an attractive women throws themself at them. I was no stranger to sex so thinking with my larger brain was easy for me already by this point.


That was the only one I ever went on a date with. This still goes on. Albeit to a lessor degree. Still, even the ‘older’ crowd can be forward in their wants.

[Finchie40]

Yes , it usually happens to me with girls’ I always asked Myself as to why that is , like what about me turns her on? I don’t think I am ugly but I don’t consider myself hot wither , but apparently I have some features that girls’ are turned on by wether it’s my eyes, my voice, my arms etc.. but overall most people say I have an amazing personality and that I am outgoing and fun to be around and humorous as well, so i always felt like my personality has gotten me lucky with girls’ and some of
My features, because I had girls’ come up to me out of nowhere that said Hi to me and then started kissing me. , I am my own worst enemy so I just assume she is blind lol

[OlderAndWiser]

In 1981, I was 26 and working at a psychiatric facility in Tampa. The charge nurse was an extremely nice lady, attractive, about 16 years older than me. She was married to someone I knew just well enough to understand that he was a good guy. One night, our staff went out for a drink after the shift ended, everyone else left, and she and I were alone. She said she wanted to spend the night with me. I resisted my animal instincts and told her to go home and work on her marriage. Apparently, she did, because they remained married until he died in 2023 (which I know only because I found his obituary online.) It was one of my better moments.

[dynamicyandere]

Yeah, a handful of times. One girl in particular threw herself at me really hard but I turned her down because her ex-boyfriend was a friend of mine. She was coming onto me strong but I didn’t want to disrespect my friend. I ended up dating someone else.

[Chazmatazz269]

Yeah, a couple of times. I wasn’t into her either time. Actually, the one woman was interesting to me but she was very drunk when she made her move and i’m not that guy. The other, there was no attraction and no connection.

[AviatorTom]

Only once. It was an interesting evening.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I have no gift of gab (game) and don't lead with my wallet. I rely completely on women throwing themselves at me. I even have a self-imposed rule to not pursue women unless I'm just joking. At most, I will mention that I would dick them down if they wanted it... and if she doesn't make moves after that, not my problem. I do have a weight lifting gym and treadmill as the biggest part of my living room, and a boxing/wrestling/Jiujitsu gym downstairs in my garage... so you can figure out why women would want to throw themselves my way.

[BonzoInBitburg]

I've had clients message me saying they were in town and gave me the hotel and room number where they were staying. One was married. A couple years ago my flight was delayed and two guys were hitting on the young bartender. I interrupted them and started talking with her then placed my order. The other guys got the hint when she asked about my return flight. Then she left her number on the bill.

[Bricealan]

After taking a new job with McGaw Laboratories in Irvine, California, I worked in an office with all women.. or mostly women... only me and two other men plus the Manager.

After work, one evening I got a call at my Apt, in Costa Mesa to come to the Lakeside Restaurant in Newport Beach, all the girls were there for Happy Hour.

We left near closing, and standing in the parking lot under the lights, Jean, on of the girls put her hand down in my pants but did not grab my penis... I quickly took it out, hoping the other girls did not see.

I think that was a very aggressive move by her... and I DID like it.

[DonaldDarko]

Sooner or later there's always some obnoxious girl that will do that. Even if I don't talk to them at all they'll still try and flirt. I remember in Walmart in the automotive department. I'd come in for a tire and this girl would constantly want to flirt with me. She even did this fake crying routine once as if I some who owed her my attention. It reminded me of these dumb incels all pissed off at women for not paying them any attention as if the girl owed them something only the other way around. I've seen women do this to other men a lot as well. Get a hint, if someone doesn't respond, leave them alone. Stop acting like you're 12 and act like an adult, no one owes you their attention. Granted men are doing worse things to women and they should be arrested for some of the shit they do. But, this is bad enough, stop making a fool out of yourself.

[Jersey2]

Yes, many times actually. At work many time, one of them got fired but not due to me complaining as it pissed the other women off as they knew I was married. She said she “wanted to have my baby”. That isn’t the first time I heard that second hand from a woman.

Once on a cruise ship in front of my teenage daughter. I had her tear up the phone number I was handed so she knew it was gone and let her tell her mother so she knew it was known. The woman apologized the next day, she was drunk that night. I said that’s ok, we have all done such things when drunk which seemed to reignite her interest so I smiled and walked away.

Neighbors, again one with the have your baby thing. WTF is with that. Anyway, it isn’t everyday but it happened enough but not enough to change my behaviors.

[Jersey2]

Ah, a funny one where I over heard a girl at a new company I joined. It was actually the Fortune Number 5 of the F500 that year. I overheard her on a phone call talking about me. The funny part was she paused and said “ I said he is married, not dead”. :D. She would say things like how she loved her bikini and wished she could walk around in it all day and how fun it is at the beach. Anyway, I thought that line was funny.

[TodsShadow]

It's happened a couple times, but it's never how I expected it to be. It's usually older women that I wouldn't feel comfortable pursuing, mostly based on attraction. When I was 19 I didn't know it was sexual harassment then, but a older co worker always felt me up even infront of other co workers wether it was smacking my butt, or feeling my chest or arms for awkward amounts of time. I never felt too strongly about the situations. Just kinda shrugged it off and went on with my life. It's never girls im attracted to so I guess I will say I definitely have to work for it. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Anonymous]

Yes, but only two of them have done so physically.
I'm in high school going to my next class when this very short girl, Janis, runs up to me and throws her arms around me proclaiming her great love for me.
Late`90's to early `00's. I walk into the room where my band is going to play that night when a dear friend I haven't seen in almost 10 years, sees me, screams my name, runs across the room and leaps into my arms wrapping her legs around my waist and smothering me with kisses!! Shit, Wendy! I didn't know you cared!!
The other 4 or 5 were cases where I was just sitting next to a woman, in some cases, she was a casual friend, in others, I only just met her moments if not seconds before, and as we're talking, she kisses me rather passionately!!
Then, there were 3 of them I met online that fell in love with me without ever having seen me, yet.

[YourFutureEx]

Yes there are many girls that put in efforts to get me. They were super aggressive and forward about it. They made me feel how girls actually feel about guys hitting on them on constant basis. They didn't even understand the meaning of "no". Unfortunately, none of them was attractive enough for me and it hurt me to reject them. Except for one girl. She tried for months, but at that time, I was a pussy and fumbled hard. She was my first crush.

[Kaneki05]

I don't know if it counts but all my exs came onto me. So yes?

Though it was kinda mutual. But they would be the one trying to push me into admitting I liked them. So I don't think I've ever worked for it?

But it's not exactly they just run up to me lol

[glennos89]

So far I have been really lucky that woman approached me instead of the other way around. I totally suck in flirting so feel blessed that my looks and personality seem to be enough for some woman that they will do the approaching. Otherwise I was screwed

[jamesgoldman]

Both my ex-girlfrirnds did but I was too oblivious to their flirting... even we others clued me in I assumed I was the butt of a joke to didn't take the bait


The juice must have been worth the squeeze because in the end they made undeniable moves on me

[molonski2]

OMG.
Yes , plenty of times ( would be a worry if it hadn't happened ) very first time I was about 17 , many many times since. Literally jumped , it still happens , I must be slow.

[Zack-Bann]

Not often for sure


But it’s been known to happen


There’s no accounting for taste
You can randomly be someone’s “10” at any moment

[Sevenpointfive]

every single girl that my good friend has been with throws herself at me when i first get introduced. i don't initiate this at all. i don't know what causes it?

[genericname85]

yeah but when that happens, it's typically girls way out of my league cause they're trying to date way above their own league. i always have to work for it if i want someone that's even close to my league.

[SotiCoto]

Never... unless you're counting the time a drunk girl decided to climb on top of me at a party and I was too tired to shove her away, so I just said horrible things to her until she lost interest and left.

[abc3643]

I've been effectively hit on, yes, but it was never for something casual, but for a relationship.

[exitseven]

yes, she was the best friend of a girl that I was dating that dumped me. I was still angry and took it out on her. Too bad because she really was nice.

[Shiprex]

Yes when I was 19 some girl punched me in the ribs then grabbed me and took me off to her sisters and... well you know

[Alex-Snow]

I was at a party in college and it happened. We ended up hooking up and had a very long night of a lot of sex. But it was a one time thing but fun and I'm glad I had a lot of condoms.

[Levin]

I've had quite a few girls into me, literally offering sex etc. I've rejected most of them.

[Lliam]

I've had quite a few girls come on to me, if that's what you mean.

[andreasderjuengere]

A few times I was given signals of opportunity.

The ''throwing at'' detail only occurs when I walk certain streets in Pattaya, Thailand.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Uh no, no girl rolled under my two wheels so far. I pay attention to pedestrians, trust me

[Hellraiser1984]

It's happened twice. Once a girl in an anime club the other was my ex therapist. Im never getting married and I don't want a girlfriend. Too much stress and pain.

[WonderingManII]

I don't know, girl's are too mysterious for me. If they are hard for other men to figure out, they are double hard for me to figure out.