Women, do you cover up in public after you feel satisfied?

[Anonymous]

Some days, I want to look or feel sexy. Other days, I do want attention, but not too much attention or bad attention. I dress how I want and carry a long (thin or thick) business tone coat with me. When im tired of compliments or done feeling sexy, I put on the coat and continue my day. Also, if I feel like someone is looking at me weird, I put it on, and it makes me feel a little bit better.

[OneViewpoint]

Holy shit, women consciously do this sort of validation begging? Well that's sad. I always thought it was a semi subconscious behavior, not some planned activity to boost your ego complete with an off switch (cover up) once you've fed off attention from men. Fucking needy vampire!

[Asker]

Is it hurting anybody?

[OneViewpoint]

Maybe you.

[Asker]

No, why do you think so?

[OneViewpoint]

Craving validation from external sources indicates low self esteem and a dependency on other people's opinions of you. Bringing the coat as a cover up says you know it's not healthy.

And you're sending guys the message you're interested in being approached but they're creeps or weirdos if they do actually notice you. But it's OK because you get off on it. I'm sorry. That's fucked up. You clearly don't know what you want or how to behave.

[Asker]

I don't get how you assumed that this is an everyday thing when I specifically state it's some days or other days
Other people's validation isn't a need, but a want
Just like people dating
The coat as a cover up isn't bad. I have multi uses for the coat, but I gave you 2. I have a social meter like everyone else and when it runs out, I adapt. I have great conversations, but not everyone's a good person to talk to.
Plus I love fashion, you need other people to like what you wear to sell.
Modeling is an industry for a reason
Why do I have to have low self-esteem when my effort pulling off a certain aesthetic, met expectations?

[oswaldcobblepot]

In public im often when I see a woman cross her arms in front when I assume she feels guys are staring at her boobs. This draws more attention to them not less.

[Asker]

Yea, that's why I have a coat, so I don't have to do that either

[Genie23]

Not really. I dress whatever makes me feel cute. It doesn't have anything to do with wanting to get compliments. I get awkward if I get compliments from strangers.

[Jania1809]

I don’t dress up for attention, just dress up as I want

[thestyx]

I don’t need to feel satisfied , it depends on my mood

[Anonymous]

Most girls I see in the city are not covered up, and why would they be?

If they look hot, they should show it off.

[jahaims]

You pursue unhealthy validation

[Asker]

I didn't say I was getting it from men

[Brad08]

I like wearing the wet panties in public

[Colin234234]

None I know

[Asker]

You're not supposed to know lol