Is it ever okay to talk again to a girl that rejected you?

[Anonymous]

I approached her in college and she was exactly my type. I became friends with her and flirted with her a little and she was receptive to my approach. But when I opened up about being serious with her a while later, she said that she isn't thinking about that, and that she feels it's too early and hoped that I'd find someone better. I just respectfully accepted it and told her it's okay and wished her the best.

This was almost a year and a half ago. She still views my stories and said "hi" to me a while back when I used to go to college and she approached me as if wanting to talk, but I didn't initiate like how things used to be. I just cut her off with no official talk since the rejection. I just smiled and kept things respectful.

But now, it's been a long time, I had a thought about reigniting things just casually. Is it ever okay to do that?

[Spencer10]

Sure why not... she said no for a date... and there are 100s of reason why she said no. Just do not be creepy about it. No hard feeling and all...

[Asker]

It wasn't a date. She just declined a full relationship

[Asker]

Committed relationship

[Summeroflove]

Depends on why you’re talking and the situation. Some people you have to interact with at some level but you don’t have to be overly friendly

[Asker]

What if there's no interaction. What if I initiate through something like replying to her story?

[Summeroflove]

You can try it. If she just doesn’t respond then leave it be

[Asker]

Of course. I'm only concerned 'cause from personal experience, everytime I gave a girl a second shot, I regret it because I become attached and she begins to treat me much worse. This might be the only girl that I liked, and decided to walk away completely as soon as she rejected me. After being sad about it for some time of course.

[Summeroflove]

Then don’t…. If you wanna give a second chance but that’s your choice

But once someone. Acts like that. They shown their true colors… are testing to see what you will put up with. I say grieve this our and move on

[serious]

According to me it is never okay. It is never okay because she rejected you for whatever reason it might be so you should never give that woman another chance even if she herself is initiating it.

Don't do anything casually also. Just ignore her and live your life.

[Anonymous]

Why did u like her

[Asker]

What kind of question is that? She matches what I want in a girl.

[Opinion Owner]

What do u want in a girl

[Anonymous]

Sure, maybe you should try.

[Abbycado]

Yes.