Boy advice pls help a girl out?

[Anonymous]

So me and this boy are both in 12th grade and the other day me and my friend were waiting for our uber- I was standing and she was sitting down. She told me my small crush was staring right at me like a lot and wouldn’t look away- I kinda turned that way and can’t remember but I think he looked away- and that kinda made me happy so today I asked him out. I texted him and said “ Hey, I’ve seen you around school and thought you were really cute, and I was wondering if you would like to get to know each other” he said “ Frl Ian nevr seen you” then replied and said “where” my other friend said like weeks ago when I brought this crush up that he was super dry and “nonchalant” so I’m trying not to take this to heart but is he just trying to look cool? Or does he just not notice me at all.

[melanieeeB]

It's great that you made a move! I know at that age I wouldn't have had the guts to do it haha but you can be definitely proud of yourself.
Seems like he either forgot and was looking because of a different reason or maybe playing it down but I would go with the first tho. Sorry🫶🏼

[NoDecision]

He doesn't want you to know he was looking and yearning for you because it might make him look like a stalker. I just hope he is not one of these guys who treat their girls like shit so they look cool in other guy's eyes. Believe me, you don't want that kind of guy.

[Anonymous]

It’s possible he’s just trying to act cool. To play it off to not seem so eager. But it’s also possible that he may have noticed you, but didn’t “notice” you. Meaning you weren’t that good looking to him that he remembered you. It’s also possible he doesn’t have that good of a memory.

[dislikesmath]

I think he has great control not to be mean I think he's kinda proud. if you saw him staring obviously he was. I myself have been approached by a lot a girls I say the truth , I think hopefully things get better for you congratulations on that move

[dislikesmath]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you are encountering two very common teenage communication habits. You will grow up eventually.

[NoDecision]

You would think that by age 18 they would have a pretty decent understanding of it. 🤔

[shortster]

Do you want that kind of relationship, where you never know how he feels about you?

[In_Trance]

I think you'll have to make the first move