Boys and girls please give ur advice?

[ginsephora]

So i went into a relationship with my best friend since an year and i recently broke up with him because I knew there is no future because of family difference and cultural differences also it was nearly that he started giving me less time which made me think the same so i thought it was stupidity to get more attached to him.
We decided to stay good friends.
Like before.
It is possible we could be?
Or what?
Ps. I don’t really have friends in my college except him.
And we still hangout a lot.
Is it a good decision?

Yeah

Maybe

Not at all don’t even try

[caring__1]

By continuing to focus primarily on him, your motivation to move on and discover what works best for you will diminish. It sounds like you believe staying with him will be safe. Yes, by not investing anything, you'll have nothing to lose... but what will you gain? How will staying in your comfort zone with him help you move forward?

I'm not saying you need to push him out of your life, but be careful of relying too much on him (just because it is easier). Put yourself out there to develop other friends.

[boggboss]

It will be hard when one of u get a partner that will also most likely cause a issue that will require distance

[ginsephora]

That’s what i was thinking

[weysally]

in my opinion, not really, you have to move on, there are many reasons things could become difficult later on, but seeing as I don't know how serious and deeply you were involved, but let's say you had sex, just a little thing like he could be talking to another girl, jealously could be coming from you, or he could be saying what you were like in bed,

[Passing_by]

No, some time or other the feelings and emotions or things that you used to do romantically or the things that caused complications in relationship which led to your break may come back. It's ideal to cut off all forms of contact with an ex.

[ginsephora]

Yes thanks for the advice 😊

[User3191989]

It's not a good idea to stay with an ex, especially if you've realized you're not even good "FRIENDS". It's time to go out and meet new people

[ginsephora]

We are amazing friends

[User3191989]

You already said you have different beliefs and family differences. That's not "being friends"

[TheMajesticKing777]

You know what they say, if two people can stay good friends after a relationship then it wasn't meant to be more than that