How do I give an obvious hint to him without saying anything?

[annie_redbull]

Me and him are really close friends and I feel like he wants more and I want to show him that I do to without bringing up a conversation myself since I am bilingual and having serious conversations in my second language is really difficult for me. Please write suggestions

[Chazmatazz269]

With minimal words, “I like you”.
Without words, kiss him.
If that’s too bold, write him a love letter or make him a card to tell him exactly how you feel. If you’re self conscious about your writing, buy a card. Valentines day is approaching. Shops are chock full of cards and gifts to help you tell someone that you think they’re special.

[Anonymous]

Just tell him. I don’t get women. Women say they’re better communicators but you all throw out hints to men that you clearly know men don’t get. Not cause we’re stupid, but because men usually don’t throw out hints to other men so we don’t operate like that. Tell him. Be honest. Most men who are “friends” with a girl usually want a relationship w her or want to have sex w her.

[HollyK21]

What’s the difference between a serious conversation and a regular one when it comes to being bilingual? You still use your words to talk to him every day and got close to him, do you unlock another set of words to say “hey I like you”? Come on. That’s just an excuse you keep lying to yourself with so that you don’t have to be the one to make the first move.

[Nikki1989]

You have to dial up the body language and propinquity just enough to create a "vibe.".

[ShellyB]

Well here are a few thoughts, they might not all fit the situation but some of them prob will. First I would make sure I look cute around him, I would think about what to wear, how to do my hair, and things like that. This has to fit the situation you are in but as much as possible. If he has ever complimented something you wore, wear it more often or wear similar things to it more often. Second I would try to create situations where he brushes against me or our bodies touch where it doesn’t seem intentional (but it is) and I would let that happen without acting nervous or even acting like I notice. It is harder to describe that than to do it.

Then a big thing is, I would ask him for help, like reaching something high, or carrying something heavy, even if you actually could reach it or carry it. Then smile at him when he does it and hug him to thank him.

JMO!

[Lliam]

Sometimes nonverbal communication is more effective than words.
If you get a chance, step very close while facing him. Look up at him wide eyed, vulnerable and beseeching, with your lips slightly parted. As you do so, you could make physical contact by gently placing your hand on his chest or place your hands on his shoulders and press your body gently against him while gazing searchingly into his eyes.

[spartan55]

Well that's a new excuse: the language barrier. Listen, there are NO shortcuts to a rewarding, committed relationship. You have to become vulnerable and/or risk sonething to get the reward. While I (kind of) understand where you are coming from, but you will fail 100% if you go the hinting/mind reading route.

[Friendlybro79]

You have to use words. Since you’re 18, I totally understand this might be difficult but it’s ok. You can do this!
Ask:
So when are you going to ask me out on a date?

As a man we’re not going to pick up on non verbal stuff especially if he’s around your age and just as nervous. If you really want to purse this one of you has to take a shot.

Go for it!!! Good luck and let us know how it goes!

[guywithafetish]

ask him for a simple foot rub then when he i massaging them you can let out soft enjoyable moans, trust me this will get his blood pressure up and he will feel connected to you much more than he was. he might even start to offer to give you more foot massages. Trust me for a guy this is a very sensual thing. That is only if you do not have hairy hobbit feet lol

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Punch him in the face, then he has to talk first

[queenofcardio]

You could give him something or make something. You could also share something personal with him.

Give him lots of attention, laugh at all his jokes..

[MarriedUnfortunately]

Simple. If you are across a crowded room and catch his eye - a sweet wink - if he winks back, he got your message and is interested. If you are next to him at the bar and he is talking, listen, laugh when appropriate, and seemingly natural, lean in and put your hand on his leg briefly, giving a little squeeze.

Hey good looking, I like you! Please wink back.

[Texaskid1]

Men don't pick up on hints.

I am 49 and I remember the many times I missed women flirting with me back in my college days. For a man you will need direct communication. Either that or watch him slip away into some other woman's arms.

[Hunter-40m]

Be sincere with hım when you talk wink to hım May be nudge hım while laughing a joke with hım and keep talking to hım with small contacts showing your interest would be helpful

[Master_Debator]

Blow job should break the ice. What's he gonna do? Say no?

[PostHocFallacy]

Just do something alone. A guy and girl alone not in a couple are on their way to be one

[Bowserforever]

Find an excuse to put his hand on your chest. Problem solved

[In_Trance]

don't hint. Be bold and clear. guys are dumb

[aboredman]

Well.. Flash your boobs

[Personalvices]

Put his hand on your chest

[Anonymous]

Show him your butthole