What makes a guy want more than friendship after just one month?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Most men aren’t looking to have friendships w women. It’s usually for sex that he pretends to want a friendship, especially if she’s not interested in being intimate w him. In his little warped brain he may be thinking maybe later down the road she will give it up or something. Now let me ask you this. Are you cute? Cute from men’s perspective, not from women’s. I say from a man’s perspective cause women tend to say all women are cute, or pretty like Lizzo even when she was overly obese. If you are chances are he wants to get w you. Are you interested in him?

[Asker]

Yeah but he was going fast asking kinks and stuff I wanted to try. He really wanted a freaky girl.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah so he’s not trying to be a “friend” he’s after sex.

[Asker]

Yikes

[Asker]

Plus it was a age difference also

[Opinion Owner]

Regardless sounds like he’s after one thing.

[Asker]

Thanks

[RavVid]

Take a husband and wife. He has thought about sex tonight before dinner is finished. His wife hasn't been thinking about sex. So she is sort in the position of going from 0 to 60 in a second. So she is inclined to decline.

But if you make your girl think about sex in a lower time frame she might well change her mind.

He at least achieved making you think about sex.

[RavVid]

Frankly men seldom want friendship with a girl. We've got mates for friends.

Men typically are quicker than girls in wanting a relationship - I presume that is the more than. We are quicker because we have broader mate selection criteria.

[Anonymous]

Just one month? That’s an eternity for some people when they’re interested

[queenofcardio]

If he started to have romantic feelings for you

[genericname85]

there's no guarantee. you can only invest more consistent time and see if his feelings develop. if they don't, pull back before you get hurt too much. if you're noticing you are crushing hard, it's probably not worth continuing cause at that point the risk of huge separation pains and end of frienship are high.

[Sickworld]

He is a moron

[Anonymous]

Romantic feelings begin to grow.

[jahaims]

Could be a million reasons

[Anonymous]

Typically the woman has come on to him.

[Mariogirl09]

Sex..

[dudeinohio]

Thats normal