One of my guy friends recently held me in his arms when we were watching a movie. It was the night after I broke up with my boyfriend, and I was so sad and lonely. I just needed to feel comforted, but then he was there. I have always felt comfortable with this guy friend, but never in a relationship kind of way. We were just really great friends. But then, the night he held me in his arms, it felt different. And ever since then, I have been unable to get the thought of him out of my head. I just keep thinking about how when he was holding me in his arms, the break-up disappeared. I felt like I was wanted. My crying had stopped by then. He was so warm, and his arms around me felt so right, and yet so weird. Right now, I am still so confused about it, and I do not know how to feel about him anymore. Our friendship is so out of wack, and I don't know what to do about it.
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Sounds like he likes you but is being really careful for whatever reason. Maybe he is weird but who cares the questions still remain unanswered sooooo... ask him talk to him communicate keep it in "I" statements until you can make better judgement on it. So keep an open mind and wait to feel him out, because you may find that your not interested in him any longer and can point blank let him know that. Before talking to him keep an open mind and be prepared for any answers given by him and let him know your just trying to decide if this is something that your comfortable with.
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Not necessarily... It mostly matters what the intent behind it is? If it's because some bs happened or he's just being random, sure, but if he wants to hold me because he likes me, and I know that then of course. If I let a guy who likes me hold me when I don't like him then it's just leading him on, isn't it? It doesn't matter if he's attractive or not.
No guy's ever held me in his arms, except for my brother once when I was in a car accident and I stood there shaking and sobbing. But I'd probably only let him if I cared for him.
There's no way in hell I'd be that close to a guy I wasn't even remotely attracted to, even if we were friends, so I'd say she likes you in some way.
I probably wouldn't do it with a guy I find ugly but we could be just close friends.
i do that with guy friends sometimes.
I would definitely say so bro.
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