Guys: how heavy is too heavy for a girl who is sitting in your lap?

[Amynoelle]

I'm about 5'6 and pretty curvy, 36-25-38. I've got a lot of muscle and been told I have a ghetto booty. I weigh about 140 lbs. I do a TON of sports so I'm super athletic too. Recently this guy who I hang out with mentioned that he would like it if I sat on his lap. I'm really self conscious about my weight tho. And he has an interest in me.Do you think it would be uncomfortable for him?

[Malcom_Reynolds]

I've never really given this one that much thought. When it comes to how heavy a girl can be before I'm no longer attracted to her, the number usually doesn't have much to do with it. I've had two girls on my lap before and that was fine so if I had to guess (solely by number so assuming that I still thought she was attractive and had neutronium infused bones or something) I'd probably guess somewhere around 250 lbs. I think athletic girls are awesome and assuming she hasn't lost her curves, or gotten too curvy, then extra weight due to muscle is nothing I'd care about.

[Ugliness]

There is no such thing. Listen, small fry, you have nothing to worry about.I way about -- in pounds perhaps 160. My wife weighs in at about 250 give or take 10. I simply LOVE her sitting on my lap, or lying on top of me. It's VERY exciting. Putting all that in context, think it over.

You are NOT too heavy. She isn't - you aren't.

If he wants you to sit on his lap, do it. If you're too much, he'll ask you to get up. Believe me.

If the weather is cold or wet, then even when we're outside my wife sits on my lap. It's hot.

Really hot.

[powerpsi]

I'm sorry but 250 is heavy. There is nothing wrong with being heavy but don't try to hide the fact that 250 is a lot.

If this girl sits on this guys lap and she's bigger than him, not only will that make him feel less masculine but it will make her feel less feminine. Why not avoid the situation if you can plainly see if the girl would be too heavy on the guys chicken legs?

Amynoelle: Be prudent or else it will be unnecessarily awkward

[Ugliness]

My wife's body is hot. To ME. I suppose that to some of us when we're in love there is no limit on weight. I'm just saying that in comparison the person asking the question is really lightweight and there should be no problem at all. I know not everyone is a chubby chaser, so to speak but - in this case there's no need to worry. And if the guy wants it, he'll love it.

[cleako]

Since when is 140 lbs something to be ashamed of? Unless he's really really small, I think he can handle it.

[LightUp]

IF the guy isn't thinner than you I think his balls want be crushed. Don't worry it will be ok

[Amynoelle]

haha:) yeah he isn't

[Ugliness]

Doesn't break MY balls. My wife sits, as it's said, on my lap, not my crotch. And even if she did - we'd make it work.

[RedThread78]

I don't think there is such a thing... I think this would be relative based on the two people involved.

[Anonymous]

I once got sat on by a 260 lb girl she wasn't really fat she was just curvy, thick, and pretty tall (about 5'11 or 6'0). I'm not gonna lie I felt pretty squashed and she only sat on my lap for about a minute or two cause I felt like my legs were gonna break. All guys are different, but for me I would say the heaviest girl that I would be able to support on my lap for more than 5 minutes would probably be no more than 190 lbs.

[powerpsi]

If you're bigger than him don't sit on him. If you're the same size it can be risky...

[Ugliness]

Down arrow for that. My wife is bigger than me. Hey I love it. Let him be the judge if it's too much for you.

[Anonymous]

No! You aren't fat! It sounds like you have a great body TBH

[Anonymous]

Sit on his lap if you feel a boner your good 2 go, and if he wasn't attracted to you he wouldn't ask you to sit on his lap

[Ezmotts]

I'm sure he can handle it.

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Too heavy for me would be over 200.