Fingering my Girlfriend???

[tradke]

alright so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few months and I want to take it to the next level without getting into oral sex. so far we've only made out but I know she wants to go farther. How do I initiate the move to either touch her breasts, and her to touch my penis. also how do I finger her. I have no idea how to. and girls if you have any tips you love having done to you please share them as well. thanx

[ftothethird]

When you're making out with her hold her tight then let your hand wander slowly from her back to her stomach and up to her breasts. Rub them gently, but not to hard or it'll hurt her. If you want to finger her then while you're making out slide your hand down the front of her pants and just gently rub her pussy, if she's wearing sweatpants you should be able to feel it, and if she's wearing jeans then it'll be right on the seam about where the bottom of the zipper ends.



Rub her through her pants gently ar first, and if she starts to moan then you'll know you're in the right place. If you are, then press harder and in a circular motion, but make sure you stay pressed on her clit. By now, she should be getting wet, so go ahead and unbutton then unzip her pants if she's wearing jeans. If she's wearing sweatpants, it's even better cause you can just slide you hand down there.

Slide your hand between her pants and underwear and rub her some more- when you feel her wet then slip your hand inside her panties.Rub her clit (the highest part) for a little bit then stick your middle finger inside her and make a sort of "come here" motion with your finger.

Alternate between doing that and rubbing her clit until she moans like crazy, and that means she's orgasming.

Best of Luck

[tradke]

That's some great advice and I can't wait to use it. too bad I just got dumped by my girlfriend by txt 2 days ago. mayb next time. thanx tho.

[ftothethird]

Oh that sucks.. you're welcome for the advice

[Anonymous]

hey well one day when you 2 are making out slowly use your hands to roam her body. and I mean everywhere caress her arms her legs her tummy and slowly start working your ways up her shirt or down her pants or skirt whatever she may be wearing... but make sure that your sure she's okay with this OKAY! and so if you touch her breast caress them squeeze them a little. and when you go down her jeans or whatever just rub her first over her panties so she can get turned on and if she's okay with you going under her panties then go for it and use your fingers to stroke her and rub her. the place where she should feel more pleasure is her clit which is like the first thing you would touch if you slide your hand from her belly down and just stroke it there like up and down or going around. ask her what feels good and what would make it better don't be shy because this will only make things pleasurable for her... and ask her if shell touch you or grab her hand and just place it over our groin. I love it when my man touches me so good luck hope this helps

[Anonymous]

while your making out with her try slowly letting your hands wander all over her breatsts and then slide them betwen her legs and rub down their over the top of her jeans if she doesn't push away then try sliding your hands down her jeans in to her knickers and if your not ready to finger her then just rub her clit she shud like that...

[1catydid]

okay well if you wanna touch her tits go for it but if she says no or moves your hand, forget, she's not ready for that yet, if you want her to touch your penis then ask her but tell her she doesn't have to, but you'd like it if she did lol good luck, have funn lol

[tradke]

That sounds good can you tell me what to do with the breasts? I'm pretty new to this. thanx

[1catydid]

Okay well if you wanna touch her breasts go for it but if she says no or moves your hand, forget, she's not ready for that yet

[honeytta]

You can ask her sit on your lap, then slowly open up her legs and just move your hand inside her pantie. I bet she'll love it if she's ready. Make her feel relaxed and gently rub her clitie and let her juice come out. Don't be harsh. After a while you can insert your fingers inside her but it depends that if she is virgin or not.