I went on two or three with my guy before he asked me out. We talked for about a month two and he asked me out. Is she kind of a player too? Or just a really great girl you happened to start talking to? Either way talk to her and bring it up. If you guys talk like you should then you should know enough about her recent dating history or whatev to know if she would be interested in dating someone. Just ask her how she feels about being in a relationship. If she says she doesn't really care if she's in one don't take it as rejection. Just be like oh yeah I feel the same way, I've been single for a while though so it would be nice to date someone though. Or something like that. That's how me and my guy were at first we didn't really want commitment. Then a couple weeks later it came up in conversation again and we became official. Its not a big deal so don't sweat it. Just be casual and it will be fine. :]
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I'd suggest feeling her out a little on your next date (feeling her out, not up, this is a very important distinction). Haha, kidding. Mostly. Anyway, examine the reasons you want her to be your girl. Is it that you're not that interested in seeing other girls? Is it that you're not that interested in her seeing other guys? Do you just want to have a secure way to get to know her better? After that, talk to her a little about it the next time you see her. Does she want to see other people? Does she want to continue to see you? Is she in a position to enter into a relationship? If the answers to all those questions lead you to feel like you still want her to be your girl, then I'd ask her on the date following the one where you find some of this stuff out. Don't rush into it though. You could wait a couple more after that if you want. Go with what feels right.
Number one: ask yourself would you give up every girl for this one?
If not your not ready
just do it, lifes too short to not "just do it" ya know?, the only thing you have to lose is your ego, and she's obviously into u, so I doubt thatd happen
just do it, man, and good luck
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Id wait for about 6 dates and then id ask her duing a really romantic time :D
I would like to see how things went. :)
Ask her when you want.
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