Exchanging numbers....who should call first?

[mellowmood]

If a girl happens to initiate exchanging phone numbers, would you say its the guys duty to call or text her?

[The-Nash]

I usually try to call first when numbers are exchanged. But when I call I try to have a few things to say; I don't want it to be like "Hey, whats up, how are ya, ... ... ... ... (and that's it, then silence)" you know. Thats never good,lol. But if someone that I exchange numbers with, calls me first, I don't really look into as anything. Usually (not with all guys, some might like to call first) it's kind of a little flattering when I'm going about my usual busy day of school and work, and I get that phone call that lets me forget about school or work for 5- 10 minutes, whatever.

I say try calling him and see if he picks up/ calls back. He could be nervous too, like if you're waiting for him to call that could be one reason why.

[wheatish]

I think people look into these things too much, if you liked each other enough to exchange numbers then I would imagine one wouldn't mind getting a phone call from the other. Personally I wouldn't care one way or another if a girl called me first, I actually might even prefer if she called me first that way I don't have to worry about when is the right time to call or what should I say etc.

[Experience-Babe]

Well for one it is..but then again it doesn't matter because you both exchanged numbers so it doesn't matter if you make the move or him..But then it depends hoe you feel about doing it..I say that if he hasn't txt you then you do it.Don't stress to much just get your fu**in phone and do it.

[B4286]

I personally like the guy to make the first call or text, but I've never heard of a guy that would be against the girl making contact first. I think it's very acceptable for the girl to take some initiative. if you feel comfortable doing it, then go for it! :)

[Scrimz21]

It's usually the guy's responsibility but either is fine.

[Life22]

Yes I would totally say it is..

[Lesae]

It doesn't matter, it's 2008 go for it!

[Quester]

Yup, he should at least initiate it.