Who should message first?

[Anonymous]

last night a guy i'm flirting with messaged me and i responded to him and asked him how his day was. He opened my messages this morning but didn't respond. Do I wait for him to message me or should i send him a message?

wait for him

I text him first

A total of 9 votes were cast: 5 girls and 4 guys. See detailed results

[_food_lover234]

wait for him to respond. trust me- I've had a guy do this to me. he's basically testing how desperate you are to talk to him. if you reach out, he knows he's got you and won't have to do much. if you dont, then he knows he'll have to work. but also think about, if a guy is doing that game.. what that says about him.. think about that please.

[rnlynmrn]

If he left you opened, don't assume too much. Maybe he's not really into you.

[serious]

Since you messaged him last and he hasn't replied, so you should wait for him to reply to you and message you. Wait for another 24 hours, sometimes it can take that much time if there is a reason for the delay. However, even after 24 hours if hasn't replied, if he cannot take that much effort then he is simply not worth it.

[katrina123456]

Wait for him and if he doesn’t respond back his not worth it.

[5_AM_Oracle]

Who ever wants to talk the most

[boggboss]

Either one of you atop playing games

[Johnuk15]

That's completely uptown you