Is tongue wiggling and teasing flirting?

[starfishandcoffee]

I am in a class in a relaxed setting where the counselor I think, is flirting with me. There are two other men, and myself in it. He teases me mercilessly, and will stick out his tongue and wiggle it at me. I'm quite certain he is flirting with me, but I'm married, and haven't flirted in some time. My marriage is done, and I'm enjoying the fun, how do I respond to him?

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This is just a short term class, we aren't in "counseling sessions" per se. I guess a better word would be instructor. He also calls me dear...

[Claudius101]

Rulles shmules. Ok:)) so this guy is a counselor. So what? I don't think that reeaaally matters. Flirting back I would suggest. He is obviously interested. Maybe you did not do it in a while, flirting I mean. After a marriage I can only guess you are a bit out of practice:P. I don't know how that is yet. Back to the point, yes ethics are important. Here is a matter if you both care about ethics, but I don't think this is the case! You should react similarly or play games. Come on women are great at games, he seems like a secure guy. Repplying in the same way is the easy way. I would recommend getting together just the two of you, something simple, like a walk, anything it can be simple. Or a place you feel confortable in, you should enjoy this. In my experience which is not to vast I can surely tell being relaxed about the ideea is also fun, this usually works. He is a man so he will like to make you laugh. Tease him back and see how he reacts! Anyway hope this helps, just my opinion.

[starfishandcoffee]

:) Good advice! It confirmed what I thought! Thank you! :)

[Anonymous]

I'd respond by reporting him. If he's your counselor he has no business doing anything like that.

[starfishandcoffee]

well he is and he isn't. he's just leading this class, um, not really "counseling" per se. it's a short term class, and he just instructs it.

[Opinion Owner]

If he's in the position of power/authority, representing the organization that you've joined, it's completely inappropriate for him to be doing any of this stuff. A guy just did that to me last night and I had to stop and give him "THE LOOK" to get him to back down. If he tries it again, I'll report him. If he touches me, he'll get a smack on the face. Unwanted actions, words, and contact must not be tolerated.