Ladies, is it creepy or desperate if your crush approaches you while you are both walking opposite ways?

[yellowmamba024]

Like you are heading south while he's heading north. In my imagination, it should be considered desperate if not creepy if I go for the approach. Problem is I have dealt with this a lot in school. I see a girl that I find attractive. We both look at each other. I really want to talk to her, and I know I have the balls to do it. But only thing I can do is to turn back and see her go because if I turn the other way to talk to her, it definitely seems creepy or desperate. So yeah what do you think if your crush really turns to your direction and strikes up a conversation with you? Okay consider that he isn't super attractive like some of the celebrities out there or the bad guys that girls crave. I guess a normal guy that isn't very bad looking.

[Anonymous]

its definitely not creepy...bc you know each other and go to school together. creepy is more serious like some old fart on the train following u...thats creepy! but if a guy you know at your school or work or church approaches you its not creepy at all!

and I don't even think its desperate...desperate is synonymous with clingy...like you're ALWAYS after her always following her trying to talk chasing her etc...

so I wouldn't worry about either of those titles.

youre basically interested in that person because you have feelings for them and its perfectly fine to catch up to them to talk and build interest. you should find some excuse to talk to her or ask her a question as a conversation starter. be confident and just go for it. its practice anyways like your gonna get married one day be a grown man so might as well practice talking to women now.

[1600ab]

Would you find it creepy if a girl did that to you?

Basically the answer to this question lies in the eye of the beholder. But I must say, if she does like you back, it probably won't matter to her at all how creepy or not it is, particularly if it is a girl you see walking by often.

[ls181846]

you should just go up to her and talk to her, if she asks where your going, tell he you wanted to say hi. it took me a long time to just go back and talk to my crush when he was heading the other way, he never really metioned it, and he's done the same thing so I think you should go go for it.