As a guy, how many times have you been approached by a girl?

[cyrus7]

how many times have you been approached or hit on by a girl in your life?

0, never

Under 3 times

Under 7 times

Under 10 times

ALOT (specify)

[archer86]

The ONLY girls that ever approached me were my sister's friends back when they were far too young. That would have easily put me in the slammer getting anally raped for twenty years. In addition, this was during the 80's in a white farm town. You just don't mess with white girls in an environment like that at the time. No woman over age 19 has approached me. Ever.

*sob*

Hoping that my studies in China and Japan will change things...maybe...

*sob*

[djbreal87]

As in truly approached? By a girl who was interested in more than just "a good time" (referencing skanks and sluts at the bar's and clubs) I have only been approached by a girl who wanted a relationship, who I had never had any prior contact with once. I was 17, it was at church, good relationship, lasted a year, ended on mutual terms. She is now married to some jerk though lol

[Anonymous]

I've never done it in person. Just one guy in college I initiated contact by adding him on Facebook because I wanted him ha ha other than that I've never been that interested in someone to go out of my way.

[Katy_16]

Well I actually approach guys quiet often if I think they're cute.(Guys I go to school or church with that I've never talked to before or that are new, not just random guys on the street)

[Prettygurl12]

I have approached and initiated every relationship I've ever been in. I even did the asking out in a few cases.

[LonelyandInTheDark]

brave girl...

[RikkiTikkiTavi]

Like a boss

[Little-Hippie]

I'm a claymore.

So I get approached more than I actually approach.

But I'm one to just go out and flutter my feathers and let the girls come in.

Sometimes, I get attention from girls that I want nothing to do with.

I just don't reciprocate the attention.

A realistic number of girls have approached me in my entire LIFE?

Probably like 45.

[MrEM4N]

What the heck is a claymore in relation to dating?

[Little-Hippie]

Do you know what a Claymore is used for?

[Mr_Solo_Dolo]

Well I've been approached about three or fours time. I've had about 4 or 5 girls tell me I had nice hair when it was longer, but I don't really know if that would be considered getting hit on since they were just complementing my hair. I don't think that counts, though.

[BlueSJ]

Well yeah your hair looks good.

But you look better with a short hair.

The long hair makes you look like a gangster! :P

[Mr_Solo_Dolo]

Thanks, I never really thought of myself as gangster looking. If I would have to describe myself I would have said more hippie-ish. My uncle also think so. I don't know, it's just my opinion.

[BlueSJ]

I mean gangster = bad boy. lol

Or I can describe it as one of those musicians xD

I'm sorry if I was just kidding it looks good. But you look better in the short hair! ^^

[Mr_Solo_Dolo]

No, it's fine. You didn't offend me or anything, I was just saying what my uncle and I thought I looked like. Thanks for the compliment, though.

[taster]

I honestly cannot remember...but this is due to age rather than the infinite number of times that it has happened...lol...eh...I am going to vote "D"...I have been shoved into a car..the same girl tried to pull me down the street while I was desperately clinging to a parking meter...I would say maybe 10 times? Some of you guys will get hit on...just hasn't happpened yet..trust me...o.O

[funkadelic5]

Only once in college, and I pretty much didn't even realize it until she left. Was dumbstruck that a girl would actually talk to me for the purposes of "getting to know me". I didn't know what to do lol.

[Anonymous]

Yeah sorta. I mean they were more subtle than anything. Someone implied that I was a girl and a girl friend of mine replied that I would make a cute girl too. To which someone said so you're saying he's already cute? I get told my eyes are pretty all the time by random people not sure if it counts or not.

[Bbwalldude]

I hardly get approached by girls.

Girls will wait it out to see if you will do it first, and if they REALLY REALLY like you, then they will approach you. If they are merely curious about you, they won't approach you and not lose any sleep.

[Dobie_Gillis]

I voted E... but I'm older than the average person here.

My wife picked me up. We met on a dating site. She had her profile set to private, so there is no way I could ever have hit on her first.

[Anonymous]

At 22, I've been approached by a guy very few times, and I'm not unattractive. Guys should know that this is an issue that goes both ways. I've approached guys more often than I've been approached by them.

[Konnour]

I don't remember the exact count but it's been quite a lot.. the problem is that mostly those girls I'm not interested in approaches me, really pretty ones rarely do that.

[CuriousCrusader]

ive been approached just one, I had a girlfriend at the time and she wasn't with me so I kindly declined and got dumped only a few weeks after

[normalice]

I've only noticed twice. It's possible I've been approached many other times, but women are too subtle for me to notice, in general...

[LebaneseDude]

twice in college, I was helping them out with something and then they started asking me questions like what programming I was taking and what is your name. I felt odd.

[Mtsmith]

Guess around 20. Lately, they have been younger, sometimes much younger.

[Longshot]

B, but the girls were all airheads. I guess I attract that type -- I have no reason why.

[Aizou]

I don't count something like that

but it's happened some times

[LonelyandInTheDark]

do girls ever hit on guys :o?

i would imagine most do not...

[cyrus7]

apparently a lot do, just not me.. go figure

[LonelyandInTheDark]

it depends a lot on the venue as well, as well as how approachable or happy you look

[lucky24]

at uni I had a lot of girls hit on me

or when they are drunk in hotel, clubs or bars

i don't think I have ever been hit on in malls or walking outside in the streets

[anonymousbastard]

Your right they don't unless the guy is a hot douche bag.

[calialltheway1993]

I hit on guys?

[LonelyandInTheDark]

I don't agree with anonymousbastard.

@lucky24, I guess you are just full of luck.

and @calialltheway, that's just incredible skill.

[lucky24]

flattered yes

full of luck... not really since none of em were my type :)

[anonymousbastard]

Really gonna sit there and tell everyone, you don't agree with me? Do you really think for a sec anyone here is not gonna, believe women only hit on the hot douche bags?

[Anonymous]

B, but this was in High School, I was more stupid back then

[calialltheway1993]

Lol aww

[Anonymous]

Do strippers count? By that I mean they approach because that's what they do, but before you realize it, they want more than to dance for you.

[Gawesome]

YAY for strippers! WOOOOOO! :P

[Anonymous]

Maybe 5 or 6 mostly in high school. It's hard to tell if they were actually approaching me though. Back then I was to clueless to realize it. Now that I'm not so clueless they don't ever approach me. :( Oh well.

[Anonymous]

I wish I had the guts to hit on a guy. They are always in groups though and its a bit intimidating.