Hey guys , how often do you get approached / asked out by a woman?

[Anonymous]

Most guys online say that getting approached / asked out by a woman is like a luxury and most guys never experience it... even some of my friends say so... Is that actually true? ... how often does that happen with you as a guy? and please , if you could just not count the fat / unattractive ones that would be great 👍😂...

Regularly / fairly often

Very rarely / just a couple of timess s

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[Leapfrog00]

If I hang around enough people, eventually a girl may take an interest in me. It really depends on where I am though, and what type of people I'm around. The area I live in now, most of the girls sale themselves for drugs or are strung out all the time, which trashy girls are a huge turn-off for me.

Maybe other guys would jump on this but to me, there is nothing hot about a girl walking up to me and asking to jump into bed. If she did that to me, I couldn't imagine how many other guys she did that too.

Some areas do have classier females. Usually when I'm in areas like that, I have better luck. Much better luck!

[Awesomesauce2005]

I hang out with 40+ year old men, what does that say about me?

[Leapfrog00]

@Awesomesauce2005 Only you can be the judge of that. Every person has different preferences.

[AaronKrieger]

It's not an everyday thing, as it much depends on what I'm doing in life, since I work from home.

For example, in high school, every few months one or two would. It was flattering, but I hated it at the same time. It often put me in situations where they'd try talking to me and I wasn't interested, so it was awkward. I didn't want to hurt their feelings, yet bad to act disinterested at the same time.

Anyway, I imagine now that I'm out of high school it'll be happening less frequently once I stop working from home, since most adults are older than me 😂 I'm fine with it though.

[Anonymous]

I would say fairly often because of my personality..

[hahahmm]

Several times but the best time was when this gorgeous woman who was easily a 9.5 out of 10 was begging for attention, practically begging me to ask her out and following me out of a store into a store parking lot. BUT I had a girlfriend at the time and I never cheat so I passed. Later on, I thought, maybe I should have got the digits for future reference. But that's life.

[hahahmm]

That said for any guys who didn't get asked out don't feel bad. You could be super hot and almost never get asked out if you don't live in a place full of women who are into asking guys. And you can't control who asks you. Be careful what you wish for.. might have some scary drunk women chasing you!. Ha ha ha.

[HighValue]

Pretty often from co-workers (nutrition workers, instructional aides, after school staff, and a couple teachers, from the parents of students (I work in schools), sometimes at a store, and even had one write her personal number on my car maintenance print out from a Nissan dealership twice.

That is just the in person stuff.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Regularly/Often online (used to be offline too, but I'm mostly a shut-in now).

They are always boring though. Hot, but really boring...

And its not an issue of me not attracting interesting women either, but moreso that even if I search for mentally interesting women, they seem to be all taken, single moms, unattractive, or outside the US.

[Malwi93]

r u hot

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Malwi93 A decent number of women seem to think so.

[Pohjolan]

You are making a false comparison.

Women approaching a guy doesn't mean that they are interested into him in a sexual/romantical way, just that he is unrepulsive.

That's like asking how often do you go swimming / fishing in summer?

[Malwi93]

GLAD sb point it out

[ColHathi]

You're not entirely wrong, but I've seen the word "approach" used a lot to specifically reference a guy or girl approaching their romantic interest with the intent of confessing their love or asking the other person out.

I'm trying to remember where I've seen it so I can prove it, but I can't really remember. I think maybe it happens a lot in animes and mangas. Could have something to do with the translation that led the word to be used in that way, I'm not sure.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Depends on how much I'm out. I work from home now post-covid, so less than before. When I went to work in an office every day, a few times a month, maybe a couple times a week if I went out a lot. Now about once every couple of months.

[Anonymous]

Approached? Fairly often. Asked out by them? Not very often.

And it always puzzles me because thier approaches and the things they ask me always seem so random. It's like I want to say back to them, "this is what you came over to ask me"? 😆😆😆

[exitseven]

now that I am old it never happens but during the year after I got married i got hit on by 3 different girls. Too bad I was married becuse one of them was hot.

[Drumlin2001]

Maybe 3 times. But I was in a bad place mentally and didn't really pick up on the social cues

[shades777]

Women don't ask men out, i been asked for my number several times but they never out right ask me out on a date.

[Karate_Aaron]

Very often -- I'm not exactly sure why, but I think it probably has something to do with my confidence more than my good looks, height, etc.

[BarryLiverstone]

Usually when I’m out with the guys it will happen, not everyday

[Raaj4you]

I don't know, why? No girl ever asked me out.

[Anonymous]

Lmao that only happened like once in my life and I didn't feel attracted to her...

[FunkyMonkee]

Almost never!!

[Sharkstealth]

Never in my entire life.

[Jmmmfi4]

Absolutely never

[Anonymous]

Never happens to me

[Rangers]

Literally never

[Darkest-Knight]

Never

[TrillXHippy]

Like never

[Anonymous]

LMAO!