My boyfriend isn't romantic anymore.

[Anonymous]

I feel like my boyfriend isn't as romantic as he was before. He doesn't write me love letters, no more poems, nothing anymore. For example, one day he promised to make an anime comic book on our love story. About a week into it he decided he didn't want to do it anymore because he didn't have the patience for it. I felt a little hurt by this but said nothing. Even though most girls would start a fight I pretended like it didn't hurt me. I would like that no one be harsh because in the last question I submitted people started cursing me out calling me a gold digger. I would like to point out that I am under 18 (therefore not at age to be a gold digger) and this boy is the love of my life so him being less romantic than he was when we started dating hurts it hurts a lot. So please be gentle with your answers and give me REAL advice. Don't just curse me out.

[jounghostjisokh]

CURSE YOU! na just kidding... he just did those things to get you hooked, however he might be in love with you its hard to tell without knowing more, does he just wnat to have sex with you / showing you of to his friends, or does he buy flowers for you some times kiss you and HUG YOU hold you and say how much he loves you? does he enjoy to walk with you in a park when its sunset? just hold and cuddle you? or is he only interested about you when its sex?

the poem love letter thing is a lot to ask from someone (unless his liveing far away, now that's another thing and somehting you do cus you can't be close to someone)

[Asker]

Loool :D weelll you have a point when it comes to poems and such but when we first started dating he would write me cute little letters and poems. I know for a fact that he doesn't want me for sex. He does tell me his feelings for me everyday. He loves spending time with me. Do you think I might be overreacting?

[zactheripper]

When was the last time you wrote him a poem or love letter?

[Asker]

Not to long ago. I write him stuff (poems, letters, etc.) believe it or not. I don't expect him to do all the romantic things. Just once in a while a little letter or drawing or anything

[Why03]

I know how you feel. I've been with my significant other for 1 year and 11 months. Next month is our 2 years. I don't know if im just asking too much or what. We used to write each other poems letters and songs. Now i still write him letters but he doesn't. I mean we hang out a lot but I don't know. Maybe he jst doesn't know how to express his feelings for me anymore or I don't know. I truly know how u feel and it sucks