When I used to be soft spoken, guys thought it was cute in a way, but for the most part, I think it got aggravating. Keep in mind though that most of the guys who have ever hit on me and taken dating interest in me are outspoken and very out going and talkative. Now, I'm way more outspoken; very bubbly, talkative, and funny...or so I'm told ;D Guy's interests in me seem to be way more solid and last longer now. I think being soft spoken can be attractive, but too much of it can make it frustrating to get to know someone. I also feel this way because I've had soft spoken guys hit on me and sometimes they come off as boring or I just wish they'd speak their mind more, get a little bold and and feisty every once in a while. Not only that, but soft spoken guys sometimes don't really know how to stand up for themselves and that's something I find unattractive.
There are guys who will like soft spoken girls because they are soft spoken themselves or they just like something about the trait of being soft spoken.
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I also wonder this, because I also have a sort quieter voice...It'll be interesting what guys will say!
Yes, it is much better than a really loud one. That's not to say you can't get excited once in a while to show that you have a full emotional range. Really loud girls just strike me as not paying attention to their surroundings or the thoughts of others, or that they have to be the center or attention, or are not good listeners. I would much prefer a girl who was on the softer side than the really loud side.
yes soft voices are the best. as you can see everyone voted for a soft voice. no guy wants a girl with a deep voice. which a lot of girls have.
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I don't think you can't be outspoken if you're soft-spoken. I thought that meant more like speaking your mind. I like a woman who does that but still has a soft voice.
Soft voices tend to give an impression of cuteness, which plenty of guys like in a girl.
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If you can hold a conversation and have confidence, I'm okay with a soft voice.
Any example of a soft voice?
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