Why does a guy have to be like a complete stud or hunk for a girl to compliment him?

[Anonymous]

I mean really, why does a guy have to be like super sexy with a great body and what not for a girl to actually call him good looking. Why can't girls compliment decent and normal good looking guys too that are not complete studs? I see it in real life and on the internet all the time. And of course on GAG too. You see guys complimenting girls from below average looking to drop dead gorgeous ones. Below average and "ugly" girls always complain that guys don't give them attention but that's because they don't get as much as drop dead gorgeous ones which is why they get all pissy. They do get at least one guy every now and then who compliments them and is into them but never enough for them. So come on girls, why do we have to be such hunks for you girls to tell us that we look good. You have no idea how many insecure guys are out there because of this. Not every guy that's sexy isn't rich to make up for their looks.

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Seriously, you girls expect guys to be "confident" after all the neglections an average guy has to go through if he isn't sexy or rich? Come on now, step in our shoes and then see how it feels like before you say I'm whining and what not. If you girls faced the same neglections an average guy that's not a stud faces, most of you would have probably committed a suicide.

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There's a reason why by the age of 25, the percentage of male population being virgins or lacking dating experience is way higher than the percentage of female population being virgins or lacking dating experience. I personally think women are evil. Not all but majority. Why? They are much more shallow than us yet they cry about us being shallow. Hello? Just because not all of you are good enough for the studs you obsess with doesn't mean the average man is shallow.

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Any answers from girls? Or is it just guys who are gonna answer my question?

[kirstentaylorc]

I don't think you're getting responses from girls because we don't even know how to respond to you're bitching about not being complimented. Girls may not come right out and tell you how good looking you are but we do compliment in more subtle ways. It's not our job to give you a confidence boost and vice versa, it's not your job to make us feel confident in our appearance/ourselves. From just my perspective of you through this question, you don't have a flattering personality so why would I go out of my way to make you feel good about yourself. You seek like the kind of person where nothing is good enough for you so maybe you're getting compliments and don't even notice it because they aren't the compliments you're looking for. Either way, a woman is attracted to a flattering personality, confidence and a clean physical appearance. The same as guys. I'm still laughing at the fact that you're blaming all women for men not having dating expereince, they just need to grow some balls and ask a girl out.

In the end, no I'm not going to sit there and shower you in compliments to make sure you feel good about yourself. Stop being a p****.

[LookAgain]

I actually love complementing people period. But guys, for me I always don't go for good lookin guys with bodies if I hang out with a guy and we can easily have fun doing almost nothing and he makes me laugh then that's good enough for me. I mean I'm not saying you can be ugly as all get out but I'm sayin my attraction for looks come after I become attracted to that guy. SO he can be ugly before I get to know him then we hang out then I get to know him then I can be attracted to him and his looks will grow on me. I'm actually in this situation now. I saw this guy I didn't know who he was I was like he is ugly. But we hung out and I was blown away from how well we go together and I just have this huge attraction for him and I like him a lot now and I think he's fine just the way he is.

[aMuse]

They actually tend to hold back more on that stuff when they really like you... I get tons of compliments from random women when I'm out and about, but the one's I'm into, who express interest in me will barely give a compliment in the beginning. They hold back a lot. Then if things work out and we end up together, they start using them more... =|

[XcessiveDreamer]

Women are as shallow as men this is true but when you find a girl that likes you for you then it feels all the more worth it.

By the if this catches on brace your self for "wo is me get over it , nature rules all responses, how dare you generalize, and you must be a "nice guy responses.

[ROTFLMFAO]

who cares? why do you need compliments in order to be confident?