He flirts with other girls right in front of me. What does this mean?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy flirt a lot and there is definitely something there between us, I can just feel it, ya know? But in the last couple days I'll be talking to him sitting like 3 seats away and we'll stop talking for awhile and he flirts with another girl right in front of me and as he is doing this he glances over at me and smiles. uh what is going on in his mind? is this a way to try and make me jealous? or am I just a "flirt buddy" nothing special, just one of many? and he isn't a player, he is kind of shy and goofy, kind of a dorky guy to put it bluntly.

[Lost_in_Space]

My ex pulled that one on me with a close friend of mine, but he went a lot further. At one of my parties he started wrestling with a friend of mine in front of me... it didn't bother me and I didn't react at all... My husband watched the whole thing happen and explained the whole thing to me later. I was hanging out with another guy that I hadn't seen in forever catching up... they came in bumping everything and rolling all over the floor... I told them to go into the other room. After they left the room they started back right in the middle of the doorway where I could see them... she moved it to the couch where my husband said my ex's mood changed suddenly... he was getting angry... mad. Eventually he stopped wrestling with her and came in and started trying to talk to me. I had her confirm everything... even the flirting he did by phone or myspace... Well she confronted him about his behavior towards me and he admitted to her that he still was in love with me and could give me a better life... He was just trying to get a reaction from me, but not every guy is the same. If I had to label my ex... I would say player... but how little I knew that he has been after me the whole time.

[xxangel1990xx]

He sounds very immature and he is playing games. He is trying to get you jealous for some reason. At the end of the day, if a guy really wanted and cared for a girl why would he do anything to try and hurt her and get a reaction from her? It doesn't make sense. But yeah, he probably likes you.

[ashley90]

I believe he was just flirting for fun. And he glanced back at you to show you that although he is flirting with her, he is still thinking about you. And wanted to make sure you knew it was harmless.

[SemiShy]

"there is definitely something there between us, I can just feel it, ya know?"

Maybe now that he knows he's hooked you, he's moving on trying to catch another fish. Like a trophy. Ask him about it, totally freak out too! It'll catch him off guard.

[Anonymous]

Maybe because you are not his official girlfriend and he's just flirting for fun?

[Asker]

Ya okay, I agree...but then why did he glance at me with that smile? and why right in front of me?

[Opinion Owner]

I am not really sure about this but sometimes when people flirting, they will be given us a confusing signal, maybe a big possibilty he wants to make you jealous and maybe he wants to see your reaction when he's flirting with another girl in front of you, if you really mad about it then he will get your body language message that shows you like him. So I think he just want to find out wether you care or not.Hope this will give you some clue.