Weight and sitting on a guys lap?

[Anonymous]

Guys, would you ever ask a girl to sit on your lap or pull her onto your lap if you though she was too heavy?

And do you like it when your girlfriend sits on your lap?

Girls, how do you feel about sitting on a guys lap?

Do you ever worry you might be too heavy for him?

Do you like sitting on your boyfriends lap?

[jasoncooper1]

In my opinion most hot girls who have a wonderful juicy figure think their heavy, I mean whyyy think that when you know all guys wanna do is grab you. A girl would be heavy if she was really fat, like with a big belly and spare tyres, well over 75kg. Depends on how tall a girl is as well...I remember when I was 15 my cousins's girlfriend who was 27 and 5ft 10, sat on my lap after I told her to while playing truth and dare, she was taller than me back then, and I was definitely thinner than her, probably weighed less, at first she said no way, I'm too big for you, then after I convinced her to sit for just 2 min she agreed. Honestly it felt great, I knew she sat full weight and her bum barely fit on my legs but I could take her weight easily. I'm not gonna say she was light, she was heavy alright but in a good way.

[Malcom_Reynolds]

I've never encountered a girl that I liked that I thought would be too heavy to sit on my lap, so that's pretty unlikely. For the sake of argument, if I encountered a girl who had a lead skeleton or something making her quite heavy but still having a nice figure, I'd probably still try and get her on my lap and then just deal with it.

Yes I like it when she sits on my lap, assuming we're in a casual enough environment.

I can also say that (at least in my case) do not worry about being too heavy to sit on my lap, chances are you're not even close.

[hsshannah96]

so you hang around with a lot of those 115 pounder 5'2 girls huh. lol.

[Malcom_Reynolds]

@hsshannah96

A girl sitting on my lap is no big deal for me. It does however seem to be a big deal for them.

[hsshannah96]

Oh. We are very worried about our bodies. Lol. I’m 5’5 and 145 and I’m always so terrified

[Malcom_Reynolds]

@hsshannah96 I’m not here to comment on girls insecurities about their weight, just to say that a girl weighing 170 on my lap is no big deal.

[hsshannah96]

Oh ok. I always ask guys to make sure I’m not crushing them just to be sure but they do say no

[hsshannah96]

Makes sense though

[Thegreapatrick]

@hsshannah96 145 is pretty light I weight 120 and I’m 5,7 and I can have you in my lap without any issues

[hsshannah96]

@Thegreapatrick oh ok.

[FaerieGirl]

Yeah, I was scared to sit on my boyfriends lap at first, but I finally gave in and did. He loved it.

I was wicked worried I would be to heavy for him. I am about 165lbs and like 5'7, so I am always like nooo I'm fattt, but he was like "Even if you were to heavy dear, I wouldn't mind. I just like having you that close to me"

Heh, he is such a dork. He said "Hmmm, I was right. This IS nice!" and when I said "Do you want a cup of tea" he said "Yes...But later. Don't get up, I'm comfy."

If you don't feel comfortable sitting on his lap, and you two are just watching TV or something, sit between his legs and lay back against him. He will probably put your arms around your waist and its a really sweet way to sit, without having a lot of your weight on him.

[hsshannah96]

I am 5'5 and 145 and only one guy I dated put me on his lap and it was problem free. maybe the pool I hang out with is weak lmfao. only two guys can lift me without breaking their back or hurting it and I know many guys

[nermalinda]

One time I was sitting on this guy's lap because there wasn't room for everyone in the car, and he was pretty skinny. I'm not "big", but definitely not super light. He said something about how I probably weighed more than him. I thought he was right, but I wasn't sure how I should take it or what to do or say, so I started to get up. But then he kept saying "no no it's ok!" and he didn't want me to get up, and he was kinda acting like he liked me.

I only liked him as a friend, but I think he basically was thinking out loud, kind of meaning that he was thin rather than trying to say that I was heavy, and so yeah I don't think he really cared.

I would just ask a guy, be like, you ok? not squishing ya? And they will probly tell you in a nice way either way.

[hsshannah96]

Yep I ask. I go “I’m not crushing the daylights out of you?” To make sure. I even ask twice to double check. I want them to be honest

[snowangle]

Guys are always inviting me to sit on their laps or let them give me a piggyback ride or something. I have an average figure (looks decent if I wear the right clothes), so it isn't terribly obvious to boys that I have stomach fat or thunder thighs. So I always warn them first with a joking "No way, I'll crush you!" and then go ahead and do it if they insist it'll be okay.

[PoeticNinja]

Yes! I am always worried about it.

I might hurt his thighs with my butt bone or something. Or I might be too heavy, I only weigh 118 now.. That's a bit much for a girl my height.

Other than that, I do enjoy sitting on a guys lap to make out with him and let things get hot and heavy.

[chubby_goth]

i’m near 300 pounds and 5’9-11. long distance so I don't know about my bfs lap. but he’s probably around 120-150 and 5’3. but i sit on my friends lap. 170 5’3.

i’d love to sit on my boyfriends lap but i’m very terrified id crush him. my friend though it’s chill lol. she can hold me so it’s alright.

i’m very concerned id be too heavy for him. honestly i’ve considered loosing some weight just to be able to sit on his lap.

i enjoy sitting on people’s laps because i enjoy feelings like a child. so. i guess i like it.

[sixstring]

I never had a girl on my lap that was too heavy, so don't know. Just make sure you spread your weight over both legs, not just one.

[TeenBoy50]

It depends, If your boyfriend is a lot smaller than you then maybe. But if he pulls you for asking you to sit on his lap, it means that he's sure that he can.

[jennhottie17]

im only 112 lbs, so I doubt I'm too heavy for them, but I love sitting on their laps

[hsshannah96]

I can put that weight on my lap for a long time and be fine. I have friends who weigh that

[Prof_Don]

Look at my pics; I'm a durable dude. It's difficult for a female to be too heavy in my lap! 8-)

[phobicczhal]

i have like.. BIG thighs, im talking HUGE. anyways, i see my boyfriend on Valentine's Day and i'm scared since he wants me to sit on his lap. he's 5'7 and maybe weights 120. i'm 5'1 and 145, the only thing im scared of is crushing him. he's made it clear that he's okay with it but im just worried since he doesn't know my weight, he's only seen pictures i've sent him of my thighs. that's the biggest thing im insecure about tbh:(

[jimmio92]

I joined just to post this.

I love my girl's 350lb (159kg) body sitting on my lap. I can support her no problem, and I love bouncing her on my knees. Girls, seriously don't worry so much. If a guy seems okay with it, it's okay. Simple as that.

[hsshannah96]

this is reassuring. I ask the guys I’m dating always if I’m hurting them. I don’t want to hurt them. but if a 300 pound person can be ok then I guess I can too. Lmfao. I’m 145. 5’5