Am I too heavy to sit on a guy's lap?

[Anonymous]

I know there's TONS of questions like this, but I'm about 136, and 5' 2" and I have a date Saturday and he asked me to sit on his lap for 5 minutes for reasons I'm not revealing. When I usually sit on people's laps, I have my feet on the floor, and I transfer most of my weight onto them but that's not going to be an option in this situation. It hurts after a while but I'm always self-conscious about fully putting my weight on someone, I can't even sit fully back against someone while sitting between their legs. Anyway, I've never put my full weight on someone so I'm scared to. When my sister sits on me (to annoy me) my legs get all tingly and go numb and I'm really scared that'll happen to this guy. I'm kind of lenient because he's a football player and he's really strong (he picked me up in a hug once) but I'm super scared his legs are going to go numb if I'm sitting on them. So am I too heavy? I'm scared I am, do you think I'll make him lose the feeling in his legs?

[jasoncooper1]

no your not heavy, be confident and put your weight on him, guys can easily take a lot of weight. My girlfriend is a Latina 5' 8" and weighs 59kg, I'm a kick boxer 5' 11" and I can easily taker her weight on my lap. But sit on both legs, because sometimes after intense workouts leg muscles get sore and may hurt if a girl sat on just one leg.

[G-Daz]

No... you're fine, you'd be surprised how many guys think that's not even that heavy its OK. Plus if the guy likes you he wouldn't care if it was heavy

[Anonymous]

Here’s a trick. Sit closer to his body instead of sitting nearer to his knee. The vessels nearer to his pelvis is less easily compressible so it’s less likely for him to complain that you’re too heavy... only problem is that it’ll be hella awkward if someone gets a boner

[hsshannah96]

NO absolutely not. If he’s a football player he can hold me and I’m 170 and 5’5. LOL. I could hold you

aha

[ATuairiscean]

First he asked you too and you are okay with it - Do it but check now and again if he is okay - Make him comfortable enough to be able to move you around - That said 136 and 5 minutes don't sound like really tough numbers

[Anonymous]

I would be a bit creeped out if you tried to sit on my lap. Your BMI is 24.9, right on borderline overweight.

[John_Bouff]

I know a 600 pound dude he'd love you to sit on his lap unfortunately he can't get an erection due to being 600 pounds