My crush talks to a lot of girls?

[Anonymous]

My crush is really social and outgoing. Just about every girl thinks he's cute and a lot of girls talk to him and want to hang out with him all the time. He talks to a lot of girls too and he is flirty and outgoing with them. I don't think he does anything with these girls and I don't mind that he talks to them or anything, but does him talking/hanging out/flirting with a lot of girls mean he has an interest in them? Like can a guy just harmlessly flirt and hang out with a girl just to be social and friendly? Or do guys who do that want something more from the girl?

[Colt40]

Well I don't want to come off as negative or disrespectful in any way so if I offend you in my answer please don't take it to heart. If you think he is attractive and he has a lot of women wanting to spend time with him constantly, he is either a celebrity or he may be gay. I don't consider myself attractive but I have had many women tell me that I am very attractive. I was very popular football player back in high school and have always had a girlfriend, but I only hungout with girls on the occasional date , and I would flirt a little during school. As for the most part I was constantly with my buddies. Girls had their time and place, girls didn't want to hangout with is constantly because we just sat around and did guy stuff, so the fact you say he has girls that just want to constantly hangout with him, throws up the red flag that he may be feminine. And we had one guy I went to school with, that all the girls that thought he was cute and always wanted to be around. Low and behold, he came out to the school our senior year. So he may not be gay but if he is, he doesn't like you the way you like him.

[Colt40]

Sorry for stammering on and on.

[Asker]

you didn't offend me or anything, but I definitely don't think he's gay. he has a lot of male friends too. he just is a really social person and I was wondering if I should be more concerned that he hangs out with so many girls

[Colt40]

Well, if he is anything like most guys I know he will continue to surround himself with females. Even if he does end up in a relationship he will still hang around other women.

[Asker]

i'm fine with him having female friends, I just wanted to know if guys just have female friends just to have them or if they always look for something more when they have friends that are girls

[Colt40]

The guys I know, no I if we flirt with women and are around them a lot its not to be friends.

[Alanaaa]

Nope. He's got player written all over him. Run. Don't be another notch.