Girlfriend talks, calls, snaps with guy (s) that like her?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is a complete extrovert and talks to a lot of guys. Ik that there are 2 guys that she is friends with (v good friends they are on call quite a lot, she sends them snaps that she doesn't send me sometimes and hangout with them in cafés). Even though she knows both those guys are not right for her but she still puts a lot of effort in their friendship. (p. s. she liked one of those guys 6-7 months back, and then she liked me next). So now I don't know I'm just scared and a little insecure. I don't know what to do pls help

[seanboi69]

It sounds like you need her more than she needs you and she’s taking advantage of your naivety and going out with other guys right in front of you but you want her too bad to let her go so you let her do it anyway.


Bro, have some self respect and leave the chick and find a girl who actually loves you.

[randomusername321]

Did you tell her to stop seeing them? If so, and she's still doing it, leave her. Don't be so dumb

[Asker]

No so she's friendly with a lot of people coz she's like that she's the person that everyone gets excited to see in a party. So if I say smthg like that I don't know I feel like she'll take it the wrong way and find it rude. And we haven't been dating for that long also it's been a month

[spartan55]

Dude, what are you doing? Your girl is making a fool out of you.

[Asker]

Uhhh I hope not coz she keeps saying how she misses me (we haven't met coz of covid, we met once, but she met them once or twice) and how she wants to meet me and loves me the most but then again those are only words so ig you're right

[spartan55]

She's telling you what you want to hear to keep you interested. Doesn't sound her actions line up with her words at all.

[Avicenna]

Expres your concerns to her (calmly of course)

[Asker]

I did think about that, but I'm afraid she'll take it the wrong way and get defensive. I've liked her for over 2 years and now that I'm finally dating her I don't want to mess it up :/

[Avicenna]

So you’d rather be unhappy and worried? Just focus on how to best approach her and make it clear that you do trust her but what you described makes you uncomfortable.

[Avicenna]

It’s fine to say you don’t trust these guys