Girlfriend hangs out with other guys, advice?

[Anonymous]

Ok I never been a jealous person but I seem to get jealous because my girlfriend haves a lot of dudes as friends. I love her so much and recently she chilled with one of them alone. I trust her and know nothing happen, however I felt uncomfortable with her chilling with other dudes alone. I just need some good rules that we both can live by when talking to the opposite gender, because I don't want to feel like I'm controlling her.

[acka72]

I understand your feelings I would feel that way too. However some women don't feel comfortable having female friends. I have none and I am kind of a tomboy. It would be annoying if I had a jealous boyfriend telling me not to hang out with my guy friends. Remembre she is dating you not them and the reason they are only her friends is that a) they are gay or b) they do not attract her at all so they ended up being just friends. Some women keep guy friends around so that their boyfriend get a tad jealous and don't take them for granted. An inteligent manner of dealing with this situation is to hang out with other women. Don't throw a hissy fit cus she's w other men and she will want to spend more time with you and protect her territory fr other gals.

[YobootyStank]

I really don't know

most relationships I have been in both agree that spending time with the opposite gender is just wrong. not that there's trust issues its just strange that you would rather hang out with another girl for example other than your own girlfriend ya know? because wouldn't she be weirded out that your hanging out with other girls? yea maybe she trusts you but she would still be a little worried like what you guys talk about, what are you guys doing. my boyfriend told me a girl and a guy can never be just friends, he at least has some feelings for her because why would a guy just want to be nice for without getting something from her? a guy wouldn't just be nice if he didn't like her or like her even a little.

[sixstring]

I agree with yobooty, to a point. If they already were friends before you two met, there's nothing wrong with it. But if they met after you met, it's a different situation.