Lately, my girlfriend has been hanging out more frequently with a guy friend from her college, who happens to be bisexual. They've been spending quite a bit of one-on-one time together, given that her previous close female friend is no longer in the picture due to a falling out and another one lives far. Despite her assurances of missing and loving me, telling how she would never entertain another man, communication tends to be near 0 when she's out with him.
Since his recent breakup, she's been mentioning him quite frequently and seems thrilled when talking about their outings. While she's always been caring and supportive towards me, this situation has me feeling confused. I've already voiced my concerns to her about this, but I'm uncertain about this. I have already talked about this and made it clear that it is a boundary she has crossed. After that discussion, she said that she won't do it ever again and apologised but the damage is done.
How do I navigate this situation further or later? Is there anything that i might be overlooking?
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If this guy is supposed to be your friend, he should have discussed this with you BEFORE he started spending time with her. Also, you didn't directly state whether your relationship is LDR.
This sounds very suspicious to me.
its is a LDR, my girlfriend is in another city to pursue her studies
I am not optimistic that this will end will end well for you. How often do you get to see her in person? How long have you been together?
we've been together for a year now, we meet twice monthly since she has moved, comes here for her dental appointments
So she comes to where you are every other weekend? Why don't you suggest that you could try to visit her on the weekends between her visits to you? If she is wanting to cultivate a relationship with this other guy, she will resist this suggestion.
If she's spending more time with him than you, then its a problem.
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