Why would he make a sound when hugging? Why do you do it?

[chocofrog1]

So this guy that I like, whenever we see each other, we give each other a tight hug and then he makes a 'mmm' sound while hugging. I find this strange but cute and would like to know why he would do this?

Thanks

[Anonymous]

It's not creepy unless you specifically don't like him. When a guy likes you and hugs you for a long time or makes that sound, sniffs your hair, or kisses the top of your head it's usually because he likes you and is filling his heart with thoughts of you. It's sort of sweet if you think about it.

[chocofrog1]

Aww that's cute. I like the way you described it: "filling his heart with thoughts of you". It is very sweet but I always get taken back by it haha, I guess I just get shy about it, thanks :)

[Opinion Owner]

NP. If it's a little overwhelming for you, best to smile and just ask him why he does that -- just nicly tell him it's surprising you.

[chocofrog1]

Hahah I am so curious to know, so I guess I would have to ask. I won't do it anytime too soon though. Will do it when I feel it's right to ask, not in front of any friends or anything. He probably doesn't even notice he does it, so that could be weird asking too haha

[Opinion Owner]

You're right, that sort of thing is usually an unconscious gesture. You're very nice to think of not "outing" him in front of friends too, haha! Good luck. :-)

[chocofrog1]

Yeah, it must be. Thanks :). I hope it turns out okay.

Thanks again =]

[KiaLuv]

First off. You guys aren't dating right? I think it might be because he likes you as well. Or because he might be freezing and you are especially warm. Nope, I still think its cause he likes u. Next time he does it, hug him tighter and do it back. See what he does.

[chocofrog1]

We aren't dating but there has been some history between us, like he wanted me to kiss him (that was 2 months back). We were in a heated library, so he wasn't cold haha. Okay, I will do that, thanks :)

[KiaLuv]

He def still likes you. I was joking about the heated thing. :)

[chocofrog1]

Haha I got the joke haha, thanks, sorry if I replied in a serious manner. Thanks again :)

[KiaLuv]

No prob. Do me a favor. Sorry if I sound greedy, can you vote this answer as good? Thanks babe.

[chocofrog1]

Haha no problem :)

[walalalaa333]

My boyfriend does this too, but he's really cute and playful like, I believe yours is too probably :)

[chocofrog1]

That's cute :) Does your boyfriend do this to other girls, or just you?

He IS quite a playful character, so he probably has a playful sort of hug haha

[walalalaa333]

He only does this with mee! I hope :o

but I love it, its super cuteeee!

[chocofrog1]

Haha that's sweet! It sounds cute, I am sure he does :D. I guess I will just have to learn to like it. We aren't dating yet, so I can't ask him why he does it. Have you asked your boyfriend as to why he does it?

[walalalaa333]

awhh do you not like it?

I'd do it back to him to see how he reacts :P

I never asked him, but I know he's always kiddish with me even though he's in his 20s. But I'm glad he can open up to me and be comfortable in any way around me

[chocofrog1]

Not that I don't like it, I just found I strange the first time when he did it as no-one has ever made a sound when hugging me before. Especially not a guy. Found it odd, but cute at the same time, and needed clarifying as to why he would do it. I guess if I knew that he only does it to me, then it would be even sweeter. I might just try that and see how he reacts haha.

That's really sweet. Looks like you have found a dime :) both of you :)

[walalalaa333]

hang around him more and I'm sure you'll get the clarification you want :)

[chocofrog1]

Thanks a lot walalalaa333, I will do that :)

[walalalaa333]

no problemoo! :)

[vidovidovid]

he wants to be warm and easy to hang out with. about liking you... I don't understand the people who say" if your friend does that then he/she likes you... " if you're friends then he surely likes you. as far as I know people make friends with people whom they like.

[chocofrog1]

Hmm that's true. Well then he can just hug me without making a sound? Right?

We never really hang out or anything like friends do, so it's weird. We mostly bump into each other in the library or at a mutual party. Have had some history, like he wanted me to kiss him at a party we were at

[vidovidovid]

well then if it's not his common act toward friends then maybe he's flirty with you. some guys conside it a flirt. but the matter is that if YOU consider it a flirt. then you can flirt back or just ignore. if he's trying to melt you down then it's you who decides " melt " or " not to melt " so it's up to you :D

[chocofrog1]

I need to suss out the way he hugs his friends haha. Thanks, I will let it be "melt" haha, so I guess I have to make the noise also ;) ha ha jokes! How awkward would that feel. Thanks again for your help.

[vidovidovid]

welcome. and yes go for the noises :D or you can hold him bit longer or tighter or so :D by the way have a lot of fun by melting :P

[chocofrog1]

Hahah I'll see how comfortable I feel on making noise :P I think I will just hold him longer and tighter :)...hahahah thanks, much appreciated kindness :P

[martyfellow]

He does that oly to let you know that he's happy to see you!

[chocofrog1]

Do you think he would do this with everyone he is happy to see?

[martyfellow]

Probably so!

[chocofrog1]

Haha, that's disappointing ahaha. Do you do the same thing?

[martyfellow]

No, not usually..of course being married, I'm out of practice in this area! But yes, I do try to show them I'm happy to see them!

[Tripz]

Hah you do the creepy groan too?

egads!

[chocofrog1]

Okay, thanks for your help. I guess this is his way of showing it, thanks

[martyfellow]

Good luck. Best answer, no?

[chocofrog1]

Haha I will definitely wait for more responses and then give the best answer :P. Thanks a lot for your response though. Just wait a bit longer haha.

[Tripz]

lol that's creepy!

*hug* 'mmmmm you are soft... it puts the lotion on the skin?'

hehe all jokes aside he might have just been happy to see you.

[chocofrog1]

I thought it was a bit creepy too! haha, and I am always taken back by it. I can never look him in the eyes after, because it's a bit awkward haha.

Hahha yes, nice joke!

I guess he would have been happy, just a strange way of showing it...

[dave32xxx]

he just wants to knowhe really enjoys the hug and so giving off a pleasurable sound ties the deal

[chocofrog1]

Aha! Do you think he would do this with every girl though? Or just someone he likes? (in a guys mind)

[dave32xxx]

i don't know but if he knows evrey girl he hugs would feel the effect of that sound,its a trade mark,lol.i don't know do you like him?

[chocofrog1]

It could be his trademark, but then every girl would think he likes her, or that something is weird, right? Haha, yes, I do like him and have liked him for a while now :)

[dave32xxx]

lets hope he's just working hard to get YOUR attention .

[chocofrog1]

Yes, well how can you make a guy work hard, that's another question haha.

Thanks for your help by the way :)

[dave32xxx]

well it really depends with your situation but basically you just have to make him jump higher and higher to get tha dog biscuit ha ha just don't give in to him early but don't make him lose interest

[chocofrog1]

Hmm that's interesting. I have been having some difficulties with this guy. I fear that I have made him think I've lost interest because I have been acting naive about the situation. He wanted me to kiss him and I didn't, as I've never kissed a guy. He invited me over for dinner - but then I avoided him for a while because I wanted him to text me. I didn't go to his party at his. So I think I have stuffed it a little. Trying to mend it now haha