Is she interested? She asked me to be patient!

[Anonymous]

We met a few weeks ago. I really like her, but I don't know if she feels the same. We've talked and texted a few times. She says she doesn't have Facebook or twitter. I tried showing interest and she asked me to be patient. What does that mean?

[Hook16]

Okay so I think she is debating you right now. I am a girl and I know that when we are kinda acting like that and telling you to be patient it's because either there is someone else we are considering and we haven't decided yet but we still wanna keep you around just in case. Or we just haven't decided we liked you yet. What I would do is not show interest for awhile. If she talks to you answer but be brief then after a week spontaneously ask her on a date. Just out of the blue, hey you wanna go to a movie. Then she won't think that your clingy or that you were desperate.

[monopolyme3]

You are so right. She most likely has different options and is weighing out her options.