Guys do you accidently touch girls you are not attracted to?

[Anonymous]

Do guys "accidentally" touch any girl often.. or is it a sign he likes me? The guy helps me with homework.. we accidentally touch hands a lot.. and he put his arm completely over mine today (touching to help me with a problem). Am I reading into it?

Another words, if he wasn't attracted.. wouldn't he be more cautious?

Come on someone give me a best answer!

[parkway]

Touching lowers your blood pressure, but it appears to have a different effect on you and is normally calming.

I normally touch women I like. Think about it, the feeling is good and you are thinking about it. He knows it. He is comfortable and wants you to feel and be comfortable. He likes you or is gay.

Good luck.

[dawnfang]

Once or twice it is a accident, however it sounds like he is doing it on purpose.

[Asker]

he literally laid his arm on top of mine. and left it there while he wrote. I didn't move my arm.. I thought about it.. but I wanted him to know the touch was welcome.. and I feel very comfortable by his touch.

[dawnfang]

He could just be a very friendly, touchy person, but even that sounds extreme. If you have no problem with it then it seems all good. If you like him and he likes you why not ask him out when the tutoring is done.

[Asker]

It's a long story.. he has been flirting for awhile ... obvious signs. I asked him if he wanted to hang out the other day.. and he said lets talk about it tomorrow * I was on my way out of the lab* then the next day... I didn't go in in the morning and he wasn't there in the afternoon. we missed each other. I think he thought I dissed him.. he didn't bring it up or try to talk about hanging out. but he was nice and showing me things on his ipad.. and did the arm thing.. I don't know I'm confused.

[dawnfang]

Maybe he has a girlfriend? Maybe he has no interest in dating? Maybe he wants to wait until he is done tutoring you? It does not sound like he was dissed.

[Asker]

Pretty sure no g/f. and he isn't tutoring me one on one anymore. And didn't show up the next day. he thought I knew he wouldn't be there in the afternoon. I didn't ask him on a date. I asked him if he wanted to hang out. Big difference. I don't want to date either. I want to get to know him.

[dawnfang]

Just try to ask again. Make it more clear you want to hang out to get to know him.

[Asker]

I emailed him. I have his number, but didn't want to be invasive. He didn't give me permission to text or call. So I just gave him my number and gave him the go ahead. He needs to move in if he is interested.

[dawnfang]

Then just sit back and wait for his move.

[dawnfang]

Thanks for ba.

[Asker]

Thanks for taking the time to think about my responses and reply!

[Anonymous]

If he knew you were over-thinking this way, he would definitely be more cautious.

A guy will usually touch accidentally the first time, and on purpose a few times after that.

[aMuse]

hmmm... Well I do purposely touch girls I'm interested in, but then again I touch girls I'm not interested in. I'm not really cautious until I notice they are interested and I'm not. Then I'm like whoops! =P If he's purposely doing things like touching/grabbing your hands/wrists then yeah he might be attracted to you. Just leaning over someone you are tutoring and brushing against them isn't really a sign of interest.

[Asker]

He knows I'm interested

[askq21]

accident definition: an unforeseen and unplanned event or circumstance (webster)

it can't happen often, or else its not an accident. You figure out the rest, you probably know it.