Attractive people do you hate getting stared at by a lot of people?

[Anonymous]

I've been told that I have really exotic features because I am from another country and my eyes really stand out and don't get me wrong I love being attractive but it just gets so annoying with everyone staring (guys and girls) wherever you go. I think its rude as hell, I pretend not to notice most of the time but if you're gonna stare at me for more than a few seconds from afar or from the side then at least come up and introduce yourself.

If it was just a casual glance I would not care but a lot of the times its consistent. I would hate to be a celebrity.

[needsanswers100]

You don't have to be attractive to be stared at a lot in public, I am 6'1 and skinny but average looking but I get a lot of stares in public because I smile a lot, its all about the emotions you give off. Most of the time attractive people give off the right emotions because they don't feel as insecure, not always but I believe most of the time. As I smile a lot I generally get great service and people are generally friendly to me. Its all in the attitude (the way you say things and when you give off certain body and facial expressions), and the way other people see you acting and making decisions. You don't have to be be good looking to get a lot of attention.

[Anonymous]

Only when it's from unattractive girls

[Asker]

A lot of the times it is. But the worst is when its from other guys.

[Opinion Owner]

Straight guys seem to look under the corner of their eyes and thinking I don't notice, and that doesn't bother me really as it's only for a few seconds.However gay guys send out signals, which is ...errrm, disturbing. I'm also very frustrated when they don't take notice of that I'm straight - especially when they are lovesick (I'm dealing with that kind of a sick scenario now)

[Anonymous]

yes it drives me crazy, sometimes I can let it go but lately it takes so much for me not to say to them

" take a picture it will last longer"

it is flattering, to get a second glance but when they stare it makes me uncomfortable, I do have feelings and I sometimes wonder is something wrong with me? people can be so rude

my husband says, you are only noticing this now? its been happening for years!

[Verimas]

What if after telling them to take a picture they say OK and take one

[Opinion Owner]

lol, actually I did happen once. There was this couple starring at me and it started to bother me and I looked at them and rolled my eyes. The lady came over and said to me " we are sorry to bother you but we have teenage sons who would think you are beautiful can we take your picture to show them?' I didn't know how to react so the first thing I said was OK, and the next thing I know I was posing for the picture! Then her husband wanted a pic with me as well. It was weird lol ...

[Maria1980]

It happens to me a lot it creeps me out. I used to ignore it in the past. But usually it follows some sort of abusive acts. Especially by other females. I am straight and not interested in a girl staring till she drools. But they do and it freaks me out. People can be so rude

[CarinaCath]

People stare at me too. I have also exotic features, I am half other race. But I don't mind. Look all you want. I just enjoy it. People like to watch, so what?

People are scared to introduce themselves.

[shyguy89]

honestly I started on this path with the sharp looks.but I notice more people are comfortable with me cause I'm hot.lol older married women,younger married women girls in college. and I did get tired of it but I have a girlfriend now totally not my fault either, but I like her and that's where my change started cause she is the same just makes people feel real comfortable around her :) so if your single take advantage of those looks..where you from homie? I'm from the carribean XD

[Anonymous]

i don't mind when people look or stare, but if its for more than a few seconds it kinda creeps me out it makes me think I might have something on my face or something lol