Why don't guys want to hang out during the day?

[tigermax22]

One guy asked on Wednesday to hang out today and when I asked to come pick me up at noon so we can actually go do something when it's still light out, he was like, it's too early and that he'll come later even tho he isn't doing anything. It's like 6pm and he still hasn't said anything.

Another guy, wanted to hang out on Sunday after talking for hours on Saturday. When I asked when he was coming, he said later and came around 6ish.

What's with guys wanting to hang out so late when you can't even do anything at night since it's so dark? How do I make them actually "hang out" earlier?

[Lovet]

Hm it's strange that this first guy didn't hit you up... He's probably not interested in you because if I like somebody I don't let them wait.

But in general, I like hanging out late too, it feels more intimate and romantic to me when it's getting dark and so on. So I personally don't think that there's much to read in to hanging out late!

Saying "just sex or he doesn't want to be seen in public with you" is utter bullsh*t lol I can't believe it...

[Southerngal10]

Usually that means they want sex. They do other things during the day and save you for the night time when there is nothing else to do. But if you honestly feel that he is a good guy, then perhaps he just wants it to be like a date and most dates don't happen at noon. They usually happen after 6pm, so that could be it as well.

[DeidreK]

I agree with this answer!

[Beck20]

I say if a guy really wants to see you he will come at anytime, especially if he isn't doing anything at that moment.There's no scheduled time in my opinion

[KingsOfleon88]

I agree with her. If I wanted to be with someone who I genuinely cared about, if I were able to meet up during the day I would.

[DeidreK]

I agree.

[Anonymous]

Some guys classify hanging out with a girl in the daytime as a non romantic hangout. Some guys classify hanging out with a girl at night as a date. In addition, perhaps some guys feel that hanging out at night increases the chances of having "additional activities" between a girl and guy of them, since "additional activities" usually happen at night.

[Anonymous]

Just sex and/or he doesn't wanna be seen in public with you