I'm confused, should I stop ignoring her?

Question

There is girl I take classes with in the university.I know she used to like me and I also liked her.I'm a quiet person so it took me time before I actually went to talk her since then we became a little close.I noticed get gets really nervous around me and sometimes don't like sitting close to me in class.

Now the thing is that I'm the one who normally calls and texts and when I call she normally gives one word answers and this makes our conversation always short and it pisses me off.I once asked her out but she told me she was travelling but I knew she was lying.

We went on holiday and after few weeks of not contacting her she deleted off bbm.That pisses me off and I kinda thought she was blowing me off and I should move on with my life.

Now we are back to school and I started to ignore her because I want to get her out of mind but I still like her.I notice she still stares at me and the other I sat close to her she wouldn't let any guy talk to her and after the class she went away from her friends and stood alone maybe she wanted me to talk to her.

Please people what do I do?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Maybe you should just ask her. Its scary to ask a girl but by telling her how you feel, or asking her how she feels...you know where you stand and you know whether you should move on. I think you should also ask her face to face because it sounds like she will either not reply to your text or call, or she'll give you an answer which isn't clear. Asking face to face also makes you look more confident and in control.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hi,

Personally, I think she still likes you but she wants something interesting from you. Maybe she feels bored with the way you text and talk to her. You say you are quiet. It may be the reason. @@

However, I think you should be yourself. If you still like her, continue following your heart. Let her know what you feel but behave like who you are.

Scoopie · Accepted Answer

She's probably playing some stupid game and she doesn't even know what she wants. Go find someone normal, someone who will talk to you, not avoid you, not lie to you, not blow you off.