Guys, if a girl jumps on you and wraps their legs around you , do you see it as flirting or just playing around?

[Anonymous]

Ive got this guy I like that flirts with me a lot and we have play fighted before, but yesterday he was standing there and I couldn't resist so I just jumped into his arms and wrapped my legs around him, and now I'm worried he will see it as coming on too strong?

so guys if a girl did this to you out of the blue would you see it as flirting or just playing around?

[Anonymous]

Definitely flirting. Play fighting is a pretty classic form of flirtation. It's a good way to rationalize physical intimacy, but it's pretty thinly veiled as to what the point is (you want to have your legs wrapped around him in another way!)

If the guy's attracted to you this can only help you cause.

[Asker]

Im trying to get someone to tell me if it was coming on too strong. I haven't really been that physical with hin until the other day.

[Opinion Owner]

It really depends. How did he react? Did he play fight back and try to continue or did he try to end it quickly?

[Asker]

I jumped into his arms and he reached underneath me to hold me up, and we stayed like that for a brief second.

[Opinion Owner]

He held you up--he didn't drop you. So he's into it. You're good. Next time fight for longer. Let him get a good feel of your butt and/or boobs in there. "Accidentally" of course!

You'll be doing this naked before you know it!

[Asker]

thanks so much :)

[Opinion Owner]

Anytime! Do you plan on play fighting him in private anytime soon? Wrestling him on the ground or on a bed or couch will work best. And you can always "accidentally" brush your hand between his legs to see just how much he's enjoying it. But for god's sake BE CAREFUL when you do that! ;-)

[Asker]

you sound like an expert at this, maybe you should become a dating coach. :) thanks again.

[Opinion Owner]

Hahaha! I've definitely enjoyed this method of turning things physical. You have the illusion of plausible denyability of what's going on until it turns into a make out session or "wrestling" turns into "groping." lol! But by then you no longer really care anyway! Hahaha!

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Depends on my relationship with the girl but as that guy, 9/10 times I would see that as flirting. And as an observer, it would be 10/10.

[Asker]

youre friends that joke around with each other, he's made some pretty bold moves with me, I really haven't ever reciprocated, but we have play fighted before.

[Asker]

would it be coming on too strong for you if the guy has been flirting with the girl? and would you enjoy it or not like it?

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Well if the girl had no intentions of taking it any further than friends then at the end of the day regardless of whether or not I liked it at the time, I would be royaly pissed off because of how flirty it comes across as.

If a boy is showing signs of interest and you're mot interested don't do things that make it look like you're interested. F***sake. Its not hard.

[Asker]

ok thank you :)

[Anonymous]

A girl who has a boyfriend, is constantly hugging me. I don't really see it as bothersome, we're in the same orchestra together so we're friends. However if a random stranger did that, I'd wonder, wtf?