I think a married man is flirting with me? Is there intent behind it or just playing around?

[Anonymous]

So I need some answers from guys and girls I guess there's a couple we hang out with and have known awhile now and in the last year or so I swear it seems like he is flirting with me or showing a bit more attentiveness to me but I am not 100 percent. He seems to be flirty and friendly by nature but I feel it may be a bit more with me? I am also married like I said we all hang out but I would like to know if there is anything more behind it cause I don't want to mislead or egg him on if he is genuinely attracted to me. We are all friends. Some things I notice is longer eye contact and looks me up and down sometimes too, once I was saying bye to them and he just looked at me hard wouldn't take his eyes off and I was thinking wtf. He also seems to touch and brush past me when there is the chance. He handed me something once and put his entire hands over mine. He teases me quite a bit but then again flirty by nature he seems to tease everyone and when we had them over he was quite helpful and wanted to help me out in the kitchen which I just took as a nice gesture. And not long ago we were all having drinks and he I guess played footsie with me under the table and his wife saw and she got mad I just kinda laughed I didn't know how else to respond so men is he just comfortable with us all being friends and just playing around or does this guy seem to have a thing for me? Is he flirting with intent? If that's the case I will have to be more cautious then

[Anonymous]

Regardless of whether or not there's intent behind his flirting, he definitely sounds out of line. Try to keep your distance from him (not hanging out with the couple as much and keeping a lot of physical space between you if you do). If you find him acting out of line again, make sure he knows how you feel (whether that's a dirty look or a "what are doing?").

[lauramor]

playing footsie was what convinced me that he is flirting with you in a special way. you should have stopped him. tell your husband and make him tell the married man to stop

[unighted]

he is totally flirting, just try to put some distance between the both of you

[shumailkazimi]

be cautious...dont let him dig u...just get his wife number...or just tell that you know his wife...the guy will sh*t in his pants...also ask about his kids...

[Asker]

I do know his wife. We are friends. She is there some of the times he seems to flirt like when he rubbed my foot she saw it. She wasn't impressed

[shumailkazimi]

well then you know better when and where you must maintain a distance from such ppl...u must not entertain cheaters ...if he is cheating on his wife ...u could be the next prey ...beware

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Sounds like he definitely does have something for you and is flirting. I'd advise caution