It's pretty easy, but you have to do some emotional management.
First thing you can do to f*** things up is to put her on the "relationship track." If a girl feels like she can potentially be your girlfriend, then you've basically flipped on the irrational switch. All that pop-media advice TV, magazines, the Internet, and her friends feed her is going to be running through her brain. She's going to get irrationally insecure and try to "not mess anything up." That, of course, includes not having sex with you for 3-6 months. So, make if very clear that she's not on the relationship track, and that's she's only on the "sex only" track. Let her board off the train early if she's not okay with that.
Second thing you can do to f*** things up is to not be mindful of her image and reputation. Girls are the opposite of politicians. You know, when a politician says "Yes," he means "maybe;" when he says "maybe," he means "no;" but if he has to say "no," then he feels like a bad politician. If a girl says "maybe," she means "yes;" but if she has to say "yes," then she's going to feel like a "sl*t, easy, cheap, etc." What that means is, you have to keep things on the down low.
You can't brag to your friends. You cannot talk about the two of you. She's your covert top secret. As far as the world cares, the two of you are just casual acquaintances who barely know each other.
You also have to be careful how you frame your interaction with her. You can't be like, "hey, want to come back to my place for some c*ck in your tight little wet p*ssy?" That's going to put her off. It's not that she doesn't want to do exactly that. It's just that she doesn't "want to FEEL like the KIND OF GIRL who wants to do exactly that." So, you have to frame it as the two of you just hanging out. You have to find "excuses" or "good reasons" to be alone together in a situation where you both have the ideal opportunity to have sex. You have to provider her with an excuse. The excuse is for herself, for her friends, for her family, and for her peace of mind. She needs something that's "plausible" (believable) and "deniable" (absolves her of accountability or responsibility for what she actually wanted to do).
She'll get the idea. The point is, she won't have to live with the socially negative consequences of her actions. If a guy is both hot and understand and appreciates that aspect of female sexuality, then it's very easy to just hook up with however many girls you find attractive.
Not hard man. Girls only have issue with sex or think twice about having sex without any inhibitions or reservations when the guy in question isn't really that hot. If the guy is hot, and the girl doesn't have some prior trauma or isn't religilous or has some kind of virginity mental illness, then of course she's going to want to have sex with a hot guy. I mean, by biological definition, if the guy is hot, that means women want to have sex with him. If a girl doesn't want to have sex with a "hot guy," then she either has issues or isn't really that into guys or into sex.
So yeah, if sex is all you're looking for, enjoy it.
well not that easy, but it does depend on the girl. well if you are hot then just go up to the girl, tlak her up and ask her to hang out smoe other time.
depends... how easy is the girl you want to hook up with? lol
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If you're hot and buff, you will get laid. Because on a ONS women go for the hottest of the hot. Otherwise you gotta work
it depends on the girl, her values, if she is drunk, if she is on ehr period
it depends on how much game you have
Not that easy
Not very easy
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