Girl ignores me then got mad I moved on...

[Anonymous]

So, I started talking to this girl several months ago and it escalated into almost a relationship but she said she didint want a relationship. Then about a month ago out of the blue, she told me she wanted to just be friends . Now for the past month, I tried to talk to her and make plans and she just ignores me. I question why she's acting this way and its the same response..."we're friends , nothings wrong." And something obviously is if we were as close as we were then nothing even though she says she wants to be "friends". I've tried to nake an effort for over a month with this girl showing interest and it really become on the verge of being desperate and needy . So I gave up trying to talk to her. Now its been a week and half since we last talked which we talked barely at all. So I decided to move on and went out last night with another girl. She tagged us on Facebook. So this girl who had been ignoring me all of a sudden posts on my Facebook wall like heyy baby we need to hangout ...I love you and hearts and all that. And it was obvious it was a reaction to the status with me and this new girl. So, I delete her post on my wall and texted her asking her if her post was a reaction to that status or did she actually mean what she said? And well then she was like f*** you, I hate you over and over again. And that she's hopes this girl screws any over...sooo, what I can't understand, why would this break things offf then almost completely ignore me for awhile then all of a sudden be jealous and hurt? I moved on because it came to the point she gave me no other choice. I don't know what to do now because she's mad and now girl#2 is mad at me because of her post. This is really pissing me off.

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Okay I'm done with this girl. Deleted her from my contact and my Facebook...like cutting up a comprimised credit card. And I will reject her and say I want nothing to do with her if she tries to contact me. She's beyond her second and third chance too so there will be no more second chances. However I'm still upset about this even though I'm not gonna let on to her I am. She didintseem like the type of girl who'd pull this crap and I've been trying to convince myself she is and has.

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She's talking to my friend. According to my friend...she keeps telling him she wants to date me. Yet she told me a month ago she only wanted to be friends and didint want to date me. And now she doesn't give me the time of day well barely. But gets jealous anytime I hangout with other girls. I don't know if she's trying to get with my friend and she's lying to him or what. But to me it seems she wants nothing to do with me yet she's telling my friend she wants to date me.

[Bhhhnjigv]

Stop letting worthless people piss you off.

I read this shit and knew immediately that her reaction, the whole "fuck you" thing wouldn't have pissed me off. I'd be cracking the hell up and deleting her existence from my life.

Don't be mad at this. Its silly to be. Just move on.

[Ghibli]

You're better than her, she wants to thinks you're a tool for her to play with.

Just be single for a while and make the women chase you, play hard to get towards them

[Anonymous]

She's one of those brats that only wants what she doesn't have. You stopped paying attention to her, she wanted you to keep paying attention to you so that she could jeep ignoring you. She's a witch. Glad you moved on, don't waste time on women like her.

[Asker]

Yepp and isn't a terrible feeling being hated or like a terrible person when you've done nothing wrong? I think this is what it is. How could somebody have a relationship let alone a friendship with someone like this? I don't get it. She seemed way more mature than this.

[Opinion Owner]

You can't. She'll never have a successful relationship or friendship with anyone until she grows up.

[Asker]

Yeah now I don't know whether to fix things with girl#1 or girl#2 or both. Or how to go by doing that. Kinda between a rock and a hard place right now.

[Anonymous]

i think she is a total bitch

[Asker]

I mean yeah. Like either I have to be really annoying or get pissed at her out of the frustration she's caused then I get a text like "Omg" or "WOW" . I wish I could drop this with her. I've asked her a million times what's wrong or to explain herself or talk to me about what's on her mind that's bothering her and she just ignores me. Yet I ask her if we re still friends and she's like yes we re still friends...yet she has nothing to do with me.

[Anonymous]

she wants everything, even if she's not using it.

[Asker]

It almost feels like she wants the constant feel of a guy chasing here but she wants that guy to constantly chase her till he runs out of breath gives up. She wants to feel like that but make no effort to chase back.